Personal Hygiene......looking for feedback...

[curiousone64]

So as many of us "visit" a MP, we encounter a wide range of ladies.

In saying that, one thing that you would "hope" that they all have in common is hygiene.

I'm talking of the plain/basic stuff....for the lady to take a shower to ensure that she's "clean and fresh" and carries a nice body aroma.

No, I'm not talking of the "private areas"...I'm talking of body odour from armpits/body sweat, etc, from just wearing clothes, etc for the duration of her shift.

In visiting this lady, she asked me to take a shower (which i did - no problem).

The lady then says "oh, I wasn't expecting anyone tonight, so I didn't take a shower before I left home."

I will admit that I noticed body odour on her, but since she had already collected the "donation", i was not really in a position to "change my mind", because I knew that I wouldn't be getting my money back.

In the end, the session turned out good....but was kind of taken back that the basics in life (cleanliness), were overlooked in this type of business.

No, I won't give her name or location...she's in Edmonton and is a nice person...I will say that she is Caucasian....

Anyone else ever experience anything like this, and how did you handle/deal with it?

 

[daty869]

I had this situation once and the lady told me “ no daty this time, I didn’t shower” . I had just showered in the room and she was helping me towel off, I was a regular at the spa so I asked if she would shower during my paid time, no problem as we had an hour. He again said that she did not wish to shower. I got dressed and told the manager the situation and I left.
I had not given the donation yet so I was comfortable leaving and discussing with the manager(owner) that I would return later in the day. I returned in the early evening to see the same lady and showered again, the lady entered and I asked her to shower as this was “next time”. She again declined so I did the same as in the morning and told the manager and left…that was her last shift at the spa…
Cheers

 

[Albertaman]

Most of us who put in some effort to arrive clean and fresh, and with some special effort to be impeccably clean in the special zones also appreciate ladies that are fresh and clean. However in the context of a busy spa and long work days for these ladies it is pretty difficult to expect them to be fresh later in their work day. I am not even referring to extra curricular activities. Just massage. It's normal they they will have had natural sweating during their work. That itself does not make anyone smell bad. Usually bad smells etc are related to dietary habits and overall health problems including poor oral/gum health. When this is the situation, I simply avoid these ladies as a shower won't fix these problems.

As for more intimate activities with a therapist that one is already attracted to (I can't imagine wanting daty with a woman that doesn't turn me on), usually I try to set it up as the first thing in the morning.. aka first client of day. The mutual expectation is that we are both freshly showered or we will shower at location before the mutual session.

At shops with shower in rooms it is easier for a therapist to maintain better personal hygiene as the work day progresses.

In the massage business therapists usually don't use any perfumes for obvious reasons. I actually like a lovely woman to have a very very light touch of a quality perfume. So it is a gift I have shared with an occasional provider. They understand this preference and apply it prior to my appointment.

But yes, personal hygiene is probably one of the most critical things when it comes to repeat visits. And I'm sure the ladies have equally difficult stories about clients that they wish never to see again


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[curiousone64]

Just to amend my original post.

The place in question is a "Body Rub" parlour, so it doesn't fit under the realm of a typical massage business that most of us have been to.

Yes, I know that a Body Rub has more on the menu...but in this situation, I was sufficed to say that it was the same type of service that you would receive at an AMP.

She had told me that I was first customer customer of the evening...given that she started her shift at 4:30pm...i saw her at 8:30pm...she could of prepped a bit better, given that you are in the "adult entertainment business".

Nothing with down there below the waist...just really stenchy/sweaty body odour.....you can shower at home and use an inexpensive body spray if nothing else.....I'm not asking/expecting much...

 

[Rubmegood]

Personally, I haven't encountered a lady who was noticeably 'odiferous'- even "Down South" when giving her "Southern Kisses". That being said, I have to agree with A-man (my new nickname for Albertaman ) that a well dressed, classy woman's outfit isn't complete without just a hint of a nice perfume!

 

[Mebad23]

There is one lady I have seen that does seem to be a bit less than fresh. Even in the morning as she arrives to work. It isnt completely discusting but not to my liking. I thought it was a one off but it has happen more than once. I have not seen her for months. Although I completely enjoy being with her I wish she woukd do even a quick wipe with a sanitizer first. I always shower before going to an appointment as I am super paranoid about my own hygiene. I will always shower there aswell, especially with they are joining me.

 

[jzburner]

I always shave the twig and berries before a visit, mostly because I don't like girls with bush. I often wonder if it improves the level of service.
I should just start asking the girls that can speak English what they prefer.

In my limited experience it's been about a 50/100 chance a FS girl will jump in the shower with me at the beginning.

 

[curiousone64]

I always shave the twig and berries before a visit, mostly because I don't like girls with bush. I often wonder if it improves the level of service.
I should just start asking the girls that can speak English what they prefer.

In my limited experience it's been about a 50/100 chance a FS girl will jump in the shower with me at the beginning.

We didn't "jump into the shower together".

She had commented "oh, I think I should shower because I'm a little sweaty...and it was apparent that she had noticed her own under arm body odour".

 

[Mebad23]

I wax . I find it doesn't hurt the service they seem to appreciate the effort

 

[Rubmegood]

We didn't "jump into the shower together".

She had commented "oh, I think I should shower because I'm a little sweaty...and it was apparent that she had noticed her own under arm body odour".

And you didn't refuse and say, "Absolutely not!!" and push her out?? How rude of her!!

 

[Sun&SandMan]

Ha.... on top of the shaving thing, I like to get a pedicure and my finger nails cleaned up at least a day before an appointment.

 

[Eastcoastdan]

Hygiene threads come up every once in a while and this one is interesting. My massage activities are not interactive, with the exception of one for a body rub and she is always clean. My FS activity is not as varied as it has been, and the few I see are also very clean.
The only thing I have encountered is a bit of bad breath either when she is near or we are kissing. Nothing major, so I haven't said anything.

I did have one FS provider thank me for my hygiene, and when I thought about it afterwards, I thought there must be some guys who aren't as clean as they could be.

I am often an earlier in the day appointment, but regardless, I always shower there. They know I have my own scrubby and toiletries, so there is no question about my hygiene when we get to it.

Grooming is a personal choice. I shave the berries and underneath, and leave some (short) on top. I can say that some providers have told me they will only do certain activities with someone who is shaved (or waxed), so it does pay off.

Oh, and nails and pedicure? Yeah, that gets noticed too. I guess some of you have narly feet and rough nails.

 

[Sun&SandMan]

Name change soon?

Customers of Stony Plain nail salon asked to get tested for bloodborne viruses

Sensation Nails in Stony Plain has been ordered to close and its customers are being urged to get tested due to "unsanitary" conditions.

edmonton.ctvnews.ca

 

[Bsmalls1]

Almost all the Asians have bad breath doesn't what time of day you see them

 

[Qster]

SOPAM requires the girl to shower with you to start the session, usually good with that at a Asian micro.

Worst pet peeve was while I was at a popular indy in town (highly rated on the other review site), DATY was offered but all I could smell was the strong distinct odor of condom latex when I approached; I politely declined. LOL, if I mention her name, all of the white knights here and everywhere would rise up on a crusade for my head.

 

[Bsmalls1]

SOPAM requires the girl to shower with you to start the session, usually good with that at a Asian micro.

Worst pet peeve was while I was at a popular indy in town (highly rated on the other review site), DATY was offered but all I could smell was the strong distinct odor of condom latex when I approached; I politely declined. LOL, if I mention her name, all of the white knights here and everywhere would rise up on a crusade for my head.

Please do! I'll dm you

 

[Albertaman]

Ha.... on top of the shaving thing, I like to get a pedicure and my finger nails cleaned up at least a day before an appointment.

Yep, properly trimmed and smoothed out finger nails are appreciated by providers who enjoy mutual play. Some years back recall a masseuse who would lean in on my toes at the bottom end of table (when I was facing up) and her vulva would make frequent contact with my feet and toes. She wore scanty panties, thong like. Very playful. Light insertion of the second toe and a lot of rubbing against big toe. Surprised more therapists don't use this tease.


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[Sun&SandMan]

Yep, properly trimmed and smoothed out finger nails are appreciated by providers who enjoy mutual play. Some years back recall a masseuse who would lean in on my toes at the bottom end of table (when I was facing up) and her vulva would make frequent contact with my feet and toes. She wore scanty panties, thong like. Very playful. Light insertion of the second toe and a lot of rubbing against big toe. Surprised more therapists don't use this tease.


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Ha, I know a special lady that loves elbows draped off the table.....

 

[Sun&SandMan]

SOPAM requires the girl to shower with you to start the session, usually good with that at a Asian micro.

Worst pet peeve was while I was at a popular indy in town (highly rated on the other review site), DATY was offered but all I could smell was the strong distinct odor of condom latex when I approached; I politely declined. LOL, if I mention her name, all of the white knights here and everywhere would rise up on a crusade for my head.

First appointment in the morning is mandatory....LOL

 

[Kvothejam]

Yep, properly trimmed and smoothed out finger nails are appreciated by providers who enjoy mutual play. Some years back recall a masseuse who would lean in on my toes at the bottom end of table (when I was facing up) and her vulva would make frequent contact with my feet and toes. She wore scanty panties, thong like. Very playful. Light insertion of the second toe and a lot of rubbing against big toe. Surprised more therapists don't use this tease.


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April used to this. I miss her teasing