Breast Attention

[Loogle]

I had an interesting conversation, not really a revelation, more of a confirmation during my last session. There I was, on my back, with her sitting on me, mutually playing. I was palming her breasts and likely thumbing her nipples, when she looks down and says "hey, I actually like that! Usually I don't enjoy breast play". Turns out some gents are a little rough. To quote her, it's like they're trying to take them home.

Lesson learned: during a session, it is more like foreplay, time for some gentle teasing. Some enjoy rougher stuff, but not usually as foreplay. As someone around here says, treat them with respect boys. The sessions get a lot more interesting when you do.

 

[Kyeraa]

The 2 worst things are guys that suck on ur nipples like a baby would...OUCH! and guys that turn them like radio dials!! DOUBLE OUCH!! I swear its like a trucker trying to catch a signal! 10-4!!

Happens way too much. LOL

 

[Speedster]

yeah, that's a good point, I think MPA's open up to you a little more when you softly stroke them in return...
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[Ajack (got it back :3)]

How should a guy treat a girl's nipples then? Pointers always appreciated!

 

[sunflower16]

Excellent tip .... and very true.

And, if you can't control yourself ... (sometimes I myself lose control!), listen to what she says ... or pay FULL attention to her moves. And, it doesn't matter how much you tip! You're hurting her. See how she does it to yours and learn!


P.S. This should be sticky indeed!

 

[Ahmad Sheikh Aljoofri]

Maybe ask Dave in Phoenix for some tips:
http://www.sexwork.com/subcontents/esalen.html

 

[weemundo]

every girl is different. PAY ATTENTION!! girls can say whatever or moan or do the standard things, but body language says MUCH more!! her eyes, her breathing, her toes, her skin, her nipples themselves. watch, listen, ask! Thats a no fail combo!!!!

 

[M&Ms]

ooooOOOOKKKKKK ----> Pardon me ... but I need to check which SPA is still open

 

[indian_cowboy]

LOL. She does make it sound interesting, doesn't she?

I can't agree more with observing her body language. The tongue can lie, but the body can't. Read it and reap the rewards. And, be aware that her likes and dislikes can change with her cycle, her mood and her arousal. What is rough as foreplay may not be anywhere near what she needs at an orgasmic moment to push her over the top. The fun is in reading her and feeding back the appropriate stimulation.

 

[xxandyxxpandyxx]

Indeed, my friend, indeed ....

 

[Sam Conway]

Because you sure can say that again.

Guys, if you even suspect you might be pincher, sucker or twister you should try your 'best' moves on your own nips first and ask yourself if there's the slightest chance anyone would ever find it anything but uncomfortable. She won't like it if you don't.

That said, I've had MPAs and others whose attentions to my chestal area were acutely un-comfortable. Lack of ATTENTION is pretty much gender neutral.

 

[hairbender]

Its true gents!! I happen to LOVE men's nipples! Well, correction...I love ALL nipples!! They vary so greatly, it makes it even more fun!! Watching his chest inflate at my tongue grazes a hardening nipple...or the goosebumps appearing down his arms and stomach as I press into them or flick my tongue around....thats the stuff I love about my job...people's reactions, pleasures, excitments!!

Do onto others as you would want done onto you!!

 

[BabeHeart]

I'm gonna be such a disappointment to you MPA2. Nipple play does nothing but annoy me. I'll be happy to play with your's for hours at a time, if you enjoy that.
As a side note, I've noticed that Asian SPs are the worst for this sort of thing. They think every guy is aroused by having his nipples played with.

 

[Melorious]

its all about technique and taking cues from your body...its all about a girl touching different parts of your anatomy. Different places, caresses, sensations...certainly there is a way to make it feel great, if only for a few moments.......I LOVE A CHALLENGE!!! GRRRR!

 

[irishscott99]

Fortunately (for both me and the ladies), I can't reach to suck on my own nipples.

 

[Jaguar Jones is uncouth]

This doesn't work 100% of the time, and certainly not in 100% of all situations, but sometimes I figure if she's doing [X] to me, it could mean that she likes [X] being done to her.

For instance, if she using her fingertips in such or so a way on my nipples, there's at least a good chance that she would like hers played with the same way.

Obviously this doesn't replace watching body language, etc to tell what's working and what isn't, but it can be a useful guide!

 

[Yamilea?]

I have to agree I've had MPA's suck on my nipples so hard it hurt. Don't know if they are just firing back at the male species and I just happened to be in the line of fire...... or they were really into BDSM...... or they were trying to tell me how they like theirs sucked.

Best to proceed with caution

 

[Is it summer yet??]

They are like that when they suck cock and do ball work!

You go girl!

 

[Aron]

Goodness Ref, ur setting me up for trouble here......

**CAUTION: NON WORK RELATED COMMENT AHEAD....... NOTE: NO I DONT OFFER THIS/ DONT FUCKING PM ME!!! LOL

They may be like that for you Ref....but Miss MPA2 is a black belt

 

[RedNinja]

Tenth degree if I had to guess.