caution!!!

[Melyn]

I would like to warn that possibly MPA's are not what they appear to be...

One thing is seeing them inside the room and another thing outside the room. I'm sure many of them tell you all kind of stories to make you think they might be a catch...That is how they make money (I appricate not beeing bullshited to , but then doesn't everyone)

The point is ask yourself "Is she what she seems to be, or is she after turning me into a regular?", before you ask an MPA on a date!!!

 

[Sparky G]

Surprise, surprise...

I trust you weren't getting ready to propose marriage to anyone when you discovered that there was less to the relationship than it seemed.

The likelihood of this sort of thing not turning out badly seems vanishingly small...

 

[jumpxit]

never understood why anyone would ask a mpa or sp on a date in the first place...i thought the purpose of seeing them was no strings attached

 

[I Like Turtles]

I appears as though New Jack got too involved with an MPA. It is very easy to do, I had an exceptional session last week with Liz@MoulinRouge spa, and I have not been able to stop thinking about it for a week.

Now there were even times that I thought she was hoping that I would go back again....she seemed to really enjoy herself, and we clicked really well, and all that stuff. If you don't ground yourself once in a while, and remind yourself that the MPA's are professionals, and they are in the business to make money, not friends, you will save yourself a lot of emotional distress (as well as possibly $$).

I have never been pulled in enough to keep going back to the same MPA under the pretenses of a relationship, but I know it happens. Besides, if you are looking for a relationship, there are many better places to look. Part of the whole purpose of the MP Experience is to spend time with MPA, and have no commitments when you walk out.

 

[Small Fry]

Sound like New Jack got Jacked.

 

[Elizabet]

Why would anyone want to date an MPA?

Do you really think that the next time you go back to see her at work he is going to do you for free????

It may feel nice while it last, but trust me it won't last!

She will move one, and you will be with out her, and as usual have to pay to see her!!!

 

[pasanun s]

i've never dated or fallen for a mpa but after a few sessions this russian chick told me she loved me and seemed very sincere!
i never saw her again after that. too scarry!

 

[ddti]

I know where you're cuming from. Got the big routine from the other star at AC (Not Sandi), telling me how huge my dick is, how she'd love to suck and fuck it, she was talking about dating. Scared the crap out of me! lol

True, we all love the idea of getting them alone and fucking the shit out of them, but too much risk involved. I wasn't sure what she was after but didn't see her again.

 

[Matt Gavaghen]

I'm the first to agree that may times we see mpa's or sp's for the "no strings attached" type of encounter. However, sometimes it happens, you end up seeing someone socially.

Think of it like this, what happens if you had met her at a bar, or club, or elsewhere--you could just have easily have been taken for a ride.

For some of us younger guys out here, how many have met a girl at a bar or club? How many of us have bought drinks or food, because she was rubbing us the right way. Did you score everytime? of course not. Did she take you for a ride, or use you? That's a matter of opinion.

I personally would not deliberately go out looking for a relationship/girlfriend with a mpa or sp. However, I can say that on two separate occasions it happened. I used to be a regular at concord Health (when it was open), after a while one of the girls and I just started seing each other. It just kinda happened. It was great. Lasted a few months, and then we just sort of drifted apart...ah the memories.

Another girl, young spanish girl. Dated a few times (her idea). I was very cautious, but we seemed to be getting along fairly well. Well on our third or fouth date I caught her chasing the dragon in the bathroom. Needless to say i got rid of her in short order.

I guess what I'm eluding to is you don't know. I'd be the first to caution anyone against dating an mpa or sp. She might be sincere, or she might trying to take you for a ride.

What's interesting to note, is everytime in my life when I got involved seriously with a girl, it was always when I wasn't looking or expecting it....we just kind of play with the hands that are dealt to us.

Be safe

 

[audilky]

"chasing the dragon" ??? Maybe I'm a bit thick tonight, but what the heck is "chasing the dragon"??

And, on another note, "we just kind of play with the hands that are dealt to us" and I got dealt a hand of Jokers!!!

Gumby

 

[John N]

Gumby,

Chasing the dragon is to smoke heroin. No effin' good, that's all I got to say on that.

 

[Pompal 09.]

don't wnna be messin' with that shit!

 

[Slappy LaRue]

I agree that most girls (if not all) are in this business for the money. However, I also think that it's possible to meet, fall in love and marry a girl in the business. It's actually happened to someone I know very well I just hate to see people generalize the way they do. If you start dating a MPA and right away you start paying her mortgage and car payments or whatever, then you deserve to get used. My rule first of all is, once I see an MPA or stripper outside, I will never see them at their workplace again, so they can't be trying to make me into a regular. If you want to go out with me for sex or for company that's fine. I don't mind spending money on dinner or on whatever. I look at it as seeing any other girl.

How long do you think your marriage would last if you stopped working and started living off your wife? Am I supposed to think my wife is using me cause she doesn't work. This subject has been discussed many times before. NOTHING in life is free. If you're looking for a relationship, you gotta be ready to give and not try to balance you contribution whether it's money, housework or whatever. If you see it as being used because you paid for one more drink than the person you're out with, then stay home.

BTW, I've never let any lady in my company get into her purse, or even look at the bill. It's just not an issue.

 

[Pompal 09.]

"never understood why anyone would ask a mpa ... on a date in the first place" - Taber

Quite simply, if you like her, you want to have sex with her. And this she may not be providing at the MP.

 

[concerned]

I used to have some feelings for a MPA... but we can't really communicate coz of different valuation and perspective about LIFE.

Its ok to take or ask the MPA for a date or to lay... but dun invest too much emotionally.. I would just relate paying her service as taking her out for a nice dinner and a trip or sth...

It equally comparable to meeting some decent gal.. I got a friend who met a girl. They had a memorable 5 days... and he invested $250 for a Gucci Belt and brought her to nice dinner $100... plus gas $100 so... total of $450. Equivalent to 5 NRs with 5 different MPAs...



007

 

[Tango & Amber]

I don't think there is anything wrong with dating an MPA, if you both actually like each other give it a chance. Yes most MPA's are only pretending to like you for money and will school you and rob you blind given half the chance, but so will most women regardless of their profession (and men if they can for that matter). But supposing for just a second that she actually does like you there are still a lot of barriers, for starters most guys would have a problem being with someone who works as an MPA, also any relationship that starts with you fooling around before being serious with each other will have a rocky start, and a body slide would be no exception. And lets not forget the impression that dating a client would make on the other girls at the MP, who would probably be giving her a lot of grief. For me personally, if I really liked the woman I would have no problem dating an MPA even if I had met her there. That said I doubt I'd initiate it and I certainly am not going there looking for it, but IMHO your odds of finding love at an MP are only a little worse then they are everywhere else (very slim)

 

[Jennifer B]

Thise threads make me laugh ok. Dating an mpa. Think about it she "services" how many guys a day. Do you want to be the next in a long line. If so than go for it. But to me dating an mpa is like working at 7-11, not worth my time.

P.S. No offence to 7-11 workers out there.

P.S.S. Guys want sex girls want money. Argue and you are kidding your self.

 

[Newbie555]

You click with an MP. Can't stop thinking about her. Return a week or so later and find she barely remembers you. So much for a one way impression.

 

[Randi]

Nope, never happened. They always remember me.

 

[nearlyfond]

Some girls want sex and money.. Some people work at 7-11. Some MPA's have boyfriends. Hmm, somebody must be dating them. I think it's quite alright. Some of them are nice people. Just trying to make a better living. To each his own 2sexxxy.