Do you lie about your personal info with mpa?

[mo-z]

Hey, just curious, if your mpa asks about your love life - or lack thereof, what do you say? I usually lie about my wife, sometimes I say im single but then the occasional mpa makes me feel desparate. Then I say im dating and the mpa asks "so why are you here"?

Also, do you disclose your real profession, area that you live, etc? I realize it's naive to trust any mpa, but sometimes the truth just flies out. Do you car e if your stories get crossed with different girls at the same mp?

I assume that the mpa lies about most things, which I don't mind cuz I really don't want to hear her boyfriend drama. But do any of you take it personal when she lies? Wish she were honest?

What's your take?

 

[Melyn]

I really don't understand the aliases or fairy tales. I don't judge and I don't stalk lol... we've seen it all, heard it all....

Plus I personally am really open with who I am, what I do, what I think... it's kinda bizarre how the tables can sometimes be totally turned...

 

[Miss?spelled wrong]

why would you take it personally...it's business. your not dating her.

 

[beautifultoes]

I'm an SC guy, and when it comes to dancers, like 'other women', I'm as honest as I can be. I have no problem with my first name, roughly where I live, what I do if not where I work, and I can honestly say that "I'm not a regular at this or any club" and that "I don't spend that much time in SCs" (Once a month plus the odd guys night or dalliance). It's just easier that way...

No grand lies or BS...

 

[Doberwoman]

As with most things, it depends on the person I am dealing with as to how much information I give them. I certainly never provide anything but the basics the first couple of times I see an MPA.

There was a case back around 1999/2000 where a SP when off the deep end and turned into every client's worst nightmare. Sheik may remember this case - I can't recall the SP's name, but she made one guy's life a living hell. She called his workplace (he worked for one of the GTA school boards) and told the employer he was seeing prostitutes. She did some other stuff as well. WACKO. It's notable though that she was the extreme exception.

Of the providers (MPA or SP) that know personal information about me, I usually know just as much about them so it's no big deal.

 

[Well]

It's always prudent to assume all MPAs lie everything on personal info on purpose due to the nature of the job/industry. At best she tells harmless "white" lies in order to secure your continous patronage.

The only time she's telling the "truth" will be she's retiring and leaving the industry for good. Still there's no way to verify or confirm the facts.

 

[Nibej]

I'll reply by saying it's fun to be with you instead of spending time with high maintenance, self-serving, bait and switch loving civilian lady who think she is the Queen or Princess



No. Why would you disclose in the first place as she has no inclination to reciprocate or her personal info could be verified/checked?

BTW, I rarely see different girls when I am contented to the excellent service from the current MPA. You would never believe how "mad" and "jealous" your favourite MPA reacts in the session when she discovers and figures out you're seeing other girls in the same MP, especially her "competitor/nemisis".



Hearing her boyfriend/pimp drama ranging from "low" take home pay to salicious details including his size in bed is bad, but hearing her grievance/venting on incessant calls from the collection agencies regarding her debts during our session is worse.

Not a good idea to suggest a "bailout" on her mess.

 

[Pompal 09.]

At this point in my life if I have to lie to get what I want I shouldn't have it anyways.

However, with a couple of exceptions of MPA'S who I have seen for years, I don't give out my personal info. because I don't see an upside in doing so.

 

[laurafbbyx3]

You mean you believed me when I told you I was 29 and was the son of Salvadore Dali ?

 

[drgnrdr451]

I always use my real name and when asked, I'll vaguely describe what it is I do for a living.
It takes way too much energy to always tell lies, so I just keep it simple.
As a matter of fact, all the MPAs I see know my real name and only a very small number know my massageplanet.net handle.

 

[Feed Me Answers!]

... you know what? You just broke my heart right there... Here I thought...


(um btw. ... wtf? that was random... gold star lol)

 

[Jo Momma]

Seriously though - I know of two clients who I have known for at least 4 or 5 years each. After I went independent, both of them suddenly revealed to me that they have actually been using a fake name with me all this time; I can't call them by their real names... it's just too weird for me. I joke about it with them so it's not a big deal that I posted it here.

I dunno... I just try to avoid asking personal questions to begin with, that way no one feels that they have to make up a cover story.

 

[Kai]

I've always used my real name, and haven't been asked any personal questions. The questions and conversations posed during my sessions have been pretty generic. Honest answers come easy this way.



Thank God. At least now, I'll be able to drop the, "I'm a lonely race car driver because my mistress is off vacationing in Europe, that's why I'm here" story.

 

[naenae0011]

I have been using the same name(Which is not my real one) for over 17 yrs now.
A part from that I don't really hide anything else.

 

[#1 Due 12/19: BOY]

agreed



lol

 

[Whitney O]

I have always used my real name going to SC's (except that one time I went with a friend, he gave a fake name so I used his. Heh). When I went to see Keyonna a few weeks ago, I was rambling on about my wife and kids, I think she thought that was funny.

I really don't think there's anything to worry about.

 

[Child of the grave]

Nothing to hide... use real name.

But I don't submit a detailed resume with references and contact information.

 

[Life Guru]

Whether people lie or tell the truth under normal circumstances is normally a factor of their personality.

MPA's are not liars out of the box - they do need to protect their identity just like you want to and that is acceptable as society and our "religious laws" are not accepting of their career choice so lets be honest they have no choice. Most also have legit reasons for doing what they do from supporting kids to settling debt etc.

Quite a few MPA's have told me their real names and given me their numbers because I have always told them the truth and been 100% genuine with them. I am in touch with a some of them on a friendship level and I give advice etc and treat them like any person in any other career as they are normal people and we need to remind them for their own self esteem.

Believe it or not but I have always cared for a lot of SC dancers and MPA's that I have got close to as I want them to succeed in life and also have faith in men as it is not just about us.

You need to simply be mature as to how you approach the whole thing and not treat it like a game show or reality TV programme and although the fantsay may be fun, they are still in reality real people with feelings.

 

[Teddy Hart & Jack Evans]

Usually, for me, the MPA says " So, you must be single ".
I ask, "Why,because I come to this place?"
She replies "No, because you're ugly !"

 

[Jon C]

I'm Bond.... James Bond!