Does your regular MPA get upset when you...

[moca]

When you see another girl that works with her at the same place. I not gonna mention details..but I went to a MP and booked a session with my regular. My regular was delayed so I was asked to wait..so I did. I figure in the meantime I will ask to meet some of the other hot MPA's that work there who are always discussed on this board. So the other three girls come out and say hi and I was impressed. Now my regular MPA is ready for me...I get in there and get massages. During the massage she told me that she was not impressed that I asked to say hello to other girls when I was booked to see her. She became really cold during the session.
I just wondered if you guys had similar experiences..?

Z.

 

[Lenieye_Moon]

This topic has been discussed numerous times over the years in considerable detail. If you search the Massage forum, you can probably find the old threads. Some MPAs may actually think of you as "hers" at least within that particular spa, but usually because you are "her" source of income and not because she has some deep emotional attachment to you.

Sure, there are exceptions to this, and MPAs do genuinely like some of their favorite clients and are therefore genuinely hurt when you "cheat on them" with another girl. Its a crazy business, you can never predict what is going to set off an argument.

 

[JessikuhTOXIC]

Makes sense....

But explain this to me: say in a period of time, I spend $500 at that MP. $450 went to the fav MPA and $50 went to another girl.


The fav knows she has got and will keep getting the bulk share of my expense there; so why would she still get mad?

 

[Exilis]

Never had the problem with my favourites.

 

[The orginal Stay with me]

So let me get this straight ...

You arrive early, she is running late.

You are checking out the other talent to pass the time, she questions you about it.

You paid for a session, she gives you shitty service.

You come here and SOB.

Here is an idea ... get a set of balls.


Next time do the following ...

She runs late, you book with someone else.

She gives you a sub par session as a result of any of your actions within the MP not affecting her, you stop the session, send her out and immediately with someone else or leave with your door fee.

NO QUESTIONS ASKED OR ANSWERED.

Because let me tell you this, in my experience any of these girls can stop seeing you in an instant for a large number of unexplained reasons and they expect you to call back and try anyways, that may happen, you just turn the tide and make the decisions that counts.

If she wants you as a customer then you will know if not then she never really cared in the first place.


Now if you think that I am being harsh, I am not ... you let them get away with it they will try it again ... this is about the customer NOT about the MPA and never forget that, because once you do, and you already have, you make it worse for the next guy which usually is one of us.

Like MM says ... its all about the $$$.

VBB

 

[lostinlove1919]

Only from the SP/MPA/Dancer's side. These kind of threads pop up when guys think there's something special between the two and don't wanna lose it.

 

[Big Dog D]

With the key word being THINK!!!

VBB

 

[RedSnook]

So now you're asking me why women do things that make no sense? Oh I forgot, that NEVER happens....

 

[jan]

oh c'mon don't chicken out - between you and VBB, one of you HAS TO KNOW!

oh and change that amount from 500 to over 10,000 but maintain the ratio....does that then tilt the nature of the question in some way?

 

[Callie :)]

Why not just find a day when your regular isn't in? Problem solved.

 

[Steven H]

who the fcuk gives a rats ass about their feelings, you go there to get a hand job, not a date.

 

[angelboy]

Every once in a while it takes a newbie to put it all back into proper perspective!

 

[Ladeedaa.]

Post of the year!!!!!

 

[Very General]

This is true, and I'll take it even further....An interviewer once asked Charlie Sheen why a young, good-looking, succesful, famous guy like him ever needs to pay for sex...

His response: I don't pay them to stay...

 

[candy- capped]

The unfortunate truth is there are a lot of wishy washy guys that dont know how to handle this pass time... Look at the amount of "I think I'm in love with an SP/MPA" threads there are....or guys who let MPAs with husbands bilk them for thousands of dollars while having a big ass smile on their face.

This board is full of MPA/SP lapdogs...its hilarious

 

[lilharibo]

We talk alot about "respect" for MPA's on massageplanet.net, but respect goes TWO ways. If your MPA had respect for you as a client, she wouldn't pull that shit. As a paying client it's your perogative to see whomever you choose.

Last week I tried a walk in appt with one of my favourite MPA's. She was expecting another client so I had a session with a different girl. No hard feelings, and as it turned out I had a fantastic session with the second MPA. I'll get caught up with my regular MPA soon...

That said, I'm not quite as jaded as other massageplanet.netITES when it comes to an MPA's intentions. It doesn't require a breaking of the DaVinci Code to understand that MPA's work to make $$$$$.

... but MPA's CAN get close to certain clients where it's not ALL about cash. I've had a girl hand BACK my tip saying she only took money from clients, not friends.

You'll have your best sessions with MPA's where there's an emotional connection. I'm not talking about running off to Hawaii together, but a genuine "hey it's good to see you, come cuddle with me" makes a HUGE difference. Clients who don't understand the importance of, and HOW to build this emotional connection know shit about MPA's, let alone women in general

 

[MF. Lif]

Its often easy for the guy to get an emotional reaction to an MPA. They are afterall being made to feel "special". The MPA on the other hand has to make many men feel special as a part of their job. Therefore, most of them cannot make any true human connection with a guy. Most look upon a client as a cost/benefit scenario. They are the product and men have to pay. Sadly, it seems like most MPA's have lonely lives without any ability to really love men. They make it up by partying hard and pretending to be Paris Hilton. They have a lifestyle but no life. That's why half the dudes who fall for MPA's do so because they want to save them.

 

[PB&J]

that is just poor business etiquette with low intellence. it is nyour personal right to see what massage attendant you wish.

 

[hannababi]

Know what you mean, she gave me the confused look other day,"You're not here for me?" Then realize, it's all good. Try the rest, you'll know which K-girl is best.

In the room, ex-fav K-girl & GT shared few life moments.