Free?
Godspeed said:
I went back 2 weeks ago, had not been there for 3 months. Saw Anna. She gives a good massage although this time it didnt feel as good as the last time I saw her. No specials asked just HJ (might have been free but I tipped 20$). Saying that because I used to get it for free last summer, but it was under a different administration.
Hi Godspeed,
Nothing is ever really free. I am sure the girl(s) were expecting
something.
There are free things in this world like: drinking tap water, breathing air at will, sitting on your porch counting the craters on the moon, etc.
Funny, I don't see handjobs on that list. [shock]
We hear about 'poor tips' not commensurate with services provided, and then there's the other category, way,
way over to the left: "No tip whatsoever" from a satisfied customer planning to return. Really, that's not right.
Gees, I wonder why the service wasn't as good as before? I'm guessing she remembers the burn of the zero, repeat Zero, Zip, Nada tip.
Tipping $20 for a HJ is by most standards the
absolute minimum. It's what I leave when I'm not happy, or if there was something wrong - whatever.
The only time I left no tip to a masseuse, (this was pretty funny), was in Toronto on Wellesley, (side street off of Yonge, Mr Sub on the corner if I remember), when the girl - a newbie and not a looker, decided after 3 minutes of agitated spine rubbing, that this career path was not for her- she ran, huffing and puffing her not so lovely self, out the door. My naked ass didn't feel the need to tip her for her
services, lol.
(FYI we all lived happily ever after as there was a happy ending when the long-reliever was called in to finish the game after the starter quit to pursue other opportunities).
Seriously, the girls are in no way expected to do this for you. If you really think about it, would you do anything of the sort for free? For everyone who walks in all day long? Or all week? etc. It's their job, it's difficult, and at the end of the day what they bring home largely depends on tips.
They do what they do for us and usually they do it very well. In return, we always treat them with respect, and part of that must include leaving a decent tip for their efforts.
Dr M