Actually, I've massaged 2 women before. The first one was a regular at this one spa and she always gave the girls a $20 tip on top of the DF for a half hour session. The second woman I massaged came in and she had no idea what goes on at our spa. I just gave her a regular massage and that was it.
One of the spas I work at now have the whole T, N, NR prices listed in our rooms. The first time a woman came in, we didn't know what do do so the receptionist took her into one of the rooms and told her the DF. The woman saw the price list in the room and realized she was in the wrong tye of spa and said, "you know what, I'm sorry but I think I'm in the wrong place." We would've massaged her if she stayed but I guess she didn't feel comfortable.
One girl I worked with told me that she once massaged this woman who took a NR from her. She told me she rubbed her and made her finish. I can't imagine myself doing that but I guess if I have to, then I have to.