how do you flirt on facebook? When I chat with the girl I like I always use smiles like xd and others, does it help understand the girl I am flirting with her? I also joke and tease her and she does the same things as me but I do it to flirt but I don't know if she flirts too or that's just her way of chatting. How do I know if she's flirting and do you have tips for letting her understand I flirt with her cause I like her?