How much is too much?

[insect.tech]

Word up Poolie!!

 

[tanjika]

I enjoy a good conversationalist, so I rarely think any amount of talking is too much. I don't mind the mpa talking about bfs, politics, family, etc. if it is someone who I have an established releationship with and actually care about their lives.

 

[Icepath]

some clients genuinely care about whats up in my life, and a few i share intimate details with because they offer a good advice and often consider me a friend. the same goes both ways, many clients come to me for help or advice about their lives or relationships or even how to please a woman! im open to most topics and am always willing to listen. sometimes the fact that im someone who doesnt know them, or is not an active member in their day to day life is attractive so they can vent and talk about whats buggin them. the massage doesnt always have to be soley about sexual pleasure, but sharing in general and a way to loosen the burden of a hard day.

once i even helped a guy mend his marriage! he came to see me all the time to ask for advice, until one day he told me he wouldnt be seeing me anymore cause they worked it out

 

[Steffie]

I think conversation is great during the session, it just makes the session flow more easily. I've always just chatted about general stuff with the girls, nothing personal or related to work or politics or any of that crap. I am there to relax.

The only thing I would suggest to the MPAs is don't stop the rubbing because you get too caught up in the conversation. One MPA, who I won't name.....she's a sweetie, always pauses for a few minutes to talk with her hands too. I don't say anything, but I just kind of laugh inside and think MULTITASK!

Another thing is don't ask me about my gf, which for some reason I get 8 out 10 MPAs mentioning to me. That's the last thing I want to talk about if I'm at an MP.

 

[Aron]

The prime motivator that got me into MP in the 1st place.

Hot MPA with smart conversation.

 

[Hazel]

Once, toward the end the back massage stage my attendant and I sort of wound down the conversation. I had a physical sensation just as the quiet settled in that the level of sensuality stepped up. It was as if her hands and body really went to work at that point, like the massage went from being usual or ordinary, to being a truly sensual, whole-body experience. I've had this feeling during RMT massages without the happy ending. Amazing, this attendant was able to maintain the feeling right through to the finish.

Who was it? Kyla@Allure. Now I've enjoyed conversation with her through whole sessions before, but boy, oh boy, on THAT day the absense of speech was something else. Talk about clicking of a different kind.

It's never happened again since, not with her nor anyone else, but imagine this: a session in which the lady works you into deep relaxation and then shushes you to quiet the conversation so that she can get into that special zone and take you with her. To me, that would be someone who truly knows what she's doing.

 

[BOMSR]

Conversation is part of foreplay, I like to compliment a woman's body parts like "your ass turns me on". One girl got very wet when I just talked dirty. Words can be very stimulating.

 

[Sylar- Goodbye for now.]

so nice to know that it is not only about T&A

 

[redbaron1625]

Conversation as far as the topic and amount depends on my mood and my connection with the MPA.

Some MPAs make me feel like a friend and we talk about whatever is going on in our lives.

Some make me feel like I'm in a porno with their dirty talk.

Some make me feel good without saying a word.

Some make me uncomfortable with their conversation. I don't mind what I do, where I'm from and that sort of stuff. But sometimes if it's talking for the sake of talking I'd rather not talk. Or I've had a rough day and don't feel like talking.

Funny enough some MPAs talk about their BFs and it doesn't kill the mood for me. I mean come on the idea that a hottie sits at home feeding her cats and doing the crossword puzzle just doesn't seem that likely.

As for talking about fantasies..... yes I can understand that some guys have some pretty weird ideas. But sometimes in talking about them the MPA can find out ways to better please the guy.

I remember one MPA telling me she was into BDSM and I'll never forget how much we laughed at what people in the other rooms must have heard as she taught me how to spank a woman.

Anyways, I guess the short answer is that the amount and topic can really depend for me even from session to session and I prefer to stay away from a formula so I do enjoy variety.

 

[LiTtLe mIsS kAyLeE]

If you don't get or exceed what you want, any amount is too much !

 

[FLOW]

i agree with that also, if you arent enjoying yourself, you just dont want to chit chat

 

[Lawrie]

some of the most interesting chats with women I have had in the past little while have been with mpa's, even if its faked interest, I do like it when they do seem interested in how your day is going, your job etc etc

Alot of people dont like the chatty Cathy type of mpa but i do love them heheheh

 

[Gabby Jolene]

I don't mind a bit of joking conversation, but what I hate is the conversation which I can tell is really just to determine whether or not I am a cop. I can usually tell which is which because the 'are you a cop?' conversation is usually accompanied by some pathetic slapping/rubbing of my back and shoulders, staying as far away as possible from all the interesting bits!

 

[Rana]

Don't leave out the part with the intimate embrace. Guess I should change my handle to Touchy feelie Goodtime

 

[WishYouWereHere]

I'm fine with conversation at the start, but once things become a little more intense, I want the coversation to end, unless of course it is dirty talk, in which case say as much as you want.

The worst I've had was during the.... uh, how do you say, the special part of the massage... an MPA ask if I had a girlfriend (which is a fine question to ask) but when I said no, not currently, she followed it up by asking, "Why? Are you gay?"

Not that there's anything wrong with that, as they say on Seinfeld, but I don't want to explain why I don't have a girlfriend at that particular moment.

 

[Pants On The Ground]

of course not, cant forget the important stuff

 

[pollyfashion100]

My handle?

 

[Drixnot]

I love gabbing away with the girls. If you're a Laguna Beach or The Hills fan, then the remainder of the sesh is nothing but us talking about our fave episodes and how we plan our Mondays and Wednesdays around the show. The sesh usually ends with us exchanging MSN's addy's and then staying up all night while we read LB and The Hills message boards together.

Don't get me wrong, I love slippin' my ween between your knockers just as much as the next Toronto Sex Industry member. It's when you're able to find that special lady you're able to talk to for hours on end, and not once does my mind wander off to what you'd look like felatting my cock, then, and only then, do I know I've found a girl I could be good friends with.

What's the most powerful ship in the world? That's right, it's friendship. Nay, it's a platonic friendship with an MPA.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=edJzO0u8nus

 

[Trinity]

not a fan of laguna beach, but perhaps the OC? tonite i had an hour conversation about Xbox and play station with a client. we went a half hour over time. lol.

 

[A Concerned Friend]

Video games and the OC? Yuck.I'd rathe grow a beard and fuck my own mouth than than talk video games and the OC.

I guess it wasn't meant to be between us, PK.