how to quit

[Hackman]

i have been trying to quit going to mp for the last 6 months but still i manage to visit 2-3 mp every month (down from 5-6mp each month). any advice ?

 

[Nosmo King]

Valid input Chief.

I've been thinking about this topic for some time.

I too have contemplated giving up massageplanet.net as the 1st step of my 12 step program...

Problem too is that there are 'withdrawl' symptoms, especially when time passes and u start to think with parts other than your brain, and then reminisce about past experiences with certain MPAs.

(sighhhhhhhhh)

Well, suffice to say I'll be here for awhile anyway.


Bone

 

[I FANCY YOU :)]

I disagree Ninja,

I visit an MPA twice a year once near my birthday to celebrate my birthday and once in February to celebrate being alive I was almost killed by a drunk driver. By keeping to this I look forward to the experience without going broke and by using massageplanet.net I am educated on who to go to so as to have a great experience.

Now after saying all of that if I have a particularlly bad experience or want to celebrate a personal victory I will also treat myself to an MP experience.

Example I recently aced an exam and in the same week receive my transcript showing that I had a perfect average as well as getting my raise and promotion. (For completeting my courses).
Well if this wasn't enough the company also gave me a bonus for all the hard work I had put in and for the perfect scores and finishing the top of my class. (I know I am bragging now!)

So I took a trip to a local MPA I like and had a great time.

So chief take it down to two to three time a year. But do it slowly or you might end up in hospital with blue balls.

Oh massageplanet.net BBQ's don't count its OK to indulge for massageplanet.net sanctioned events.

Kurt

 

[Juancho]

I think the only way to truly quit this hobby is to cut off your wang.As long as you have a working pecker you will always come back to the Alexis's and Paige's of this hobby.

 

[brokenlover381]

hey chief,

get a girlfriend...........period; that will solve the problem.

 

[Pompal 09.]

No matter how many "civilian" women are in your like, an experience with a good MPA/Dancer/SP is always going to be different from your real-life encounters, and therefore desireable. True no-strings sex is too appealing (at least at times) to give up completely.

The only known cures I have ever heard of are: 1) cutting it off (already suggested), 2) going broke (but you'll still miss it), or 3) going "dick-dead" (but you'll probably get Viagara and carry on anyway).

 

[Polly]

go see Vanessa @ Back Fitness

 

[neboptics]

Once again... as the wise man said... first get off massageplanet.net.

And then pace yourself to go fewer times a month... then match your spending at MP's with something that is actually beneficial to you... invest in something... pay off some debts...
Eg... before you go mp... spend $140 on something for your wife, or mutual funds or something... then maybe that will kill the guilt abit.

hmmm... getting a steady girl might help... but didn't work for me! hahaha

 

[LYNBOP mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm]

Yeah that certainly did in Bedumdedum. Man what a horrible experience. Hey Cheif, if you're not sure what we're talking about do a search on Vanessa. I think the thread also had something about the poor guy needing therapy. Long story short... she tried to use him as a toilet...

 

[.Music.]

Taber, you are on it!
ROTFLMAO !!!

If she was the only MPA available, I could easily retire!


Bone

 

[Bunz!]

The guy wants to quit , just trying to help the poor chap out

 

[aqua_galkayak]

Try not to keep alot of cash on hand!!! If you don't have money to go then you won't...

 

[Bad Ash]

I've been thinking of quitting for a while as well, after realizing the money that I've been spending could have easily bought a big screen TV or made some payments on a nice car..

I've started to ween myself off.. already slowed down to once every other week, hopefully going down to once a month..

I figure once I see all the all-stars at HFH or IT, then I'll be ready to call it quits, cold turkey is the only way to go with this (that, or behaviour modification, they've come a long way with electroshock therapy!!)

but, I'll still log on to give reviews of sessions with myself, my mileage never varies!!!


dude abides..

 

[gagan k]

Hey Rusty before you commit dickacide, remember that this is not the solution to quiting this beloved hobby, because thereafter there is always a strapadictomy.

If ever in need of surgery come down to the lab. I'm in cage 22.

 

[ilovesoccer]

we all suffer from that rare Hawaaiian disease called "Lakanookii".

The only known cure is to spend a month at the clinic on the island of "KamonIwannalaya"


Bone

 

[Loogle]

OK

I guess the first step is admitting you have a problem.

Its like drinking some people can handle one or two drinks a night without getting plastered and they only drink on rare occasions.

I am a social MPA goer twice a year for sure but probably closer to 3-4 times a year.

So I guess for an addict massageplanet.net would be like being in a group where everyone discusses drinking constantly so therefore yes if you are addicted then find help and don't come on massageplanet.net not even as a lurker.

But if its not an addiction and you have some self control and can remain a hobbyist in moderation this board is a great resource to find a good MPA or SP so that the rare occasion that you do partake it is a memorable time.


Again being in a relationship and having a friends with fringe benefits for added fun might make my situation different.

Good Luck

Kurt