Is this a common MPA ploy?

[Todd A]

Has anyone been given an MPA's cellphone# and asked to call her for a date but each time you call you have to leave a message which are never returned? Is this a ploy to get you to keep thinking of that MPA so you will continue to see her at the MP? If so, this can get your hopes up too high resulting in disappointment. It can mess with your mind. I guess it is time to move on to another MPA if that is the MPA's ploy. Anyone else experienced this? Just wondering.

 

[:pms:]

I don't believe that they are that devious.

I think you are messing with your own mind.

Forget it, and move on.

 

[troubled?]

Could be any - or all - of 3 things.

1. Yes, she's doing the old 'bait and stall' to keep you hoping and waiting. Pretty girls do think that playing 'hard to get' makes the boys more eager.

2. She's just so disorganized that she never returns her messages. (Most of these girls are not exactly work-disciplined).

3. Every time you call, she's about to line up another, more lucrative client. So she returns his call instead.

 

[Rein]

Yes they will do that ...
If an MP give you her number, Smile, Thank her and when you get out of the place just throw it away

 

[dancergirl]

2sexxxy disagrees with throwing away the number. Call once and only once. Ask her out ,if she does not answer leave a massage with your name and number. I prefer girls not to answer, that way if they call you back ok. If they dont who cares, the more you kiss there ass the worse.

P.S Wait 5 days to call and never on a weekend.

 

[corporal.hicks]

Call her at least 5 times a day just so she knows how much you care about her.If you keep getting her voice mail, leave really strange messages like "I'm naked right now,how does that make you feel?".Doing this will really let her know what a special guy you are.

 

[Saturday]

2 different MPA's (from different MP's) gave me their phone #s without my solicitation. Both of these #s were "real" #s to their cell phones as my calls were answered by them, etc. One MPA used the call to offer me fs (which I never acted upon), and the other offered me a session at her home (which I did accept). So, ya never know...

 

[jcaddyer]

I've been given numbers by some MPA's. Cell phones, home numbers on a couple of occasions. The first one I think I called once and talked to her but I didn't call again. The second one I still talk to and email. She wanted a friend and someone to help her with her english. The third I visited with on occasion and we became friends. The fourth was more recent and I'm not really sure where that will go.

Mostly in my case they were just looking for a friend. Which was fine by me. All of them gave me their numbers on the first visit and unsolicited. Some are lax in returning calls and will always say call me back, but they are there and will talk when they can. One will always call back if I leave a message or even if she misses the call and she sees my number.

 

[McGregor]

I've recieved two numbers from two MPA's at different MP's. One wanted to meet me for private sessions away from the MP therefore she collects all the cash.

The other wanted to date me. Although she was a very nice person, I felt trying to start a full-filling relationship with a MPA would me too hard for me to handle. I gathered by the way she spoke this was the type of relationship she was looking for.

My advice would be to make sure you and her are looking for the same type of relationship and you both are secure in the positions you are in. (No pun intended.)

 

[Wendy]

I was given a number for the first time a few weeks ago after one of the best sessions I ever had. I called a couple days later and left a message for her to call me back, then called a couple more times but didn't leave a message because I didn't want to seem like a weirdo.

Too bad too... if the hour at the MP could have turned into 3-4 at my place, I think it would have been great.

It made me feel pretty special to get the number at first. Now I am reading these posts and questioning it... and its funny, if some of the theories in this thread are true and she was giving it to me to get repeat business at the MP, I figure it actually had the opposite affect because its a pretty insulting thing to do (fuck, we're all guys and look at these things the same way, right???)

 

[Pompal 09.]

I give out my pager number to most of my clients as a courtesy to let them know that they can find me if I dissappear one day, in this occupation you never quite know what is going to happen.

 

[tenny_the_true_gaian]

Sandi, I'm feeling a little insulted... you didn't ever give me your pager number.

 

[Tdog]

I occasionally get emails from one MPA that keeps asking if I miss her and when I am coming back. I keep saying that I am trying to save some $$$ and 'may' come in soon. I am not sure if she's really missing me or if she just wants my $$$. I've tried to ask to do something on her days off but she never agrees. If it's the money she wants, she's not gonna get it. I've found the almost perfect GFE in a MPA and I'm sticking with her for now.

 

[Evehr]

I never got Sandi's pager either WTF??

 

[Crikey a Wild Ski Bum]

And another makes three!..........


Jazzman

 

[mo0ink]

And here I thought I was special for getting a cellphone# from one of the top mpa's in Toronto. I guess anytime you are given any mpa's phone numbers, you should ask exactly what they have in mind if you do call them. If it is a vague reply, don't bother. If it's for a date, and you like her, give her your number and ask her to call you when she is free because she is probably busier than you are.

 

[Butterfly2Kiss]

Hmm... good thread, me too. Called a few times, no return call. Woman was/is an allstar MPA, been through this a few times no doubt.

I'm going with Tinop's explanation - it's a ploy to get us to think about them more, and think that our relationship is about "more than money."

I might say, however, I always think it's odd when massageplanet.net-ites mention that they liked a girl, but it was "too bad we met at a massage parlour." Is it better if you met at a bar? At least here you have some vague clue how sensual the woman is! Although clearly there's the MPA persona to work through until you get to the "real" person, if in fact such a construct exists at all.

 

[sophparis]

Hey Guys, I thought the whole point of seeing a MPA instead of dating is to have no string attach. Anyway, getting back to Humber D's question. I think you have to make it at least to the list of the regulars for a particular MPA before you get her phone number. I have gotten the MPAs' cell number, pager and even their home number. The reason why the MPA give her number to you might mean somethings or nothings at all. One time I got a MPA's home number and all she ever wanted is to talk about MP business and $ sign.

About two year ago, I got a MPA's US address instead of her phone number. She was an American and came here as a student. I found this kind of strange but nevertheless I gave her my number so we can keep in touch. After awhile she disappeared from the MP scene and I got a call from her last year. She told me she was working in a Niagara Fall SC. I made the trip to Niagara Fall and I had a great time. The address that she gave me turns out to be her college campus resident. I did not enquire about it any further. I just had my dances and enjoyed myself.

If you have all the qualities that the MPA is looking for, I can't see why you cannot pursue further with that phone number. But then again it is best to leave it behind and have no attachment. You will enjoy MP much more. Just my two cents.

 

[Nightmary83]

The "no strings attached" thing was my intention when I started this hobby. However, when a hot mpa offers her phone number and "appears" to enjoy your company and says they really like you, your mind plays tricks on you and before you know it, you're hooked on that one mpa. Especially, if she is incredibly sensuous and gives you passionate kisses. When you try other mpa's like I have, to try to get over the regular mpa, the new mpa's sessions are dull or lack the intensity you have with the regular mpa. You end up with an empty feeling and before you know it, you've booked with the regular mpa again. I guess I'll stick with her until she retires or I go broke.
I will stop phoning her and leaving messages because I get no reply and she always has an excuse why she didn't call back.

 

[Father Christmas]

Hey guys,

In my defence .....you all told me that you were massageplanet.netites so I knew that you would be able to contact me if I ever left Alpha Care.... and Gramage I gave you my pager before the last massageplanet.netite party at Goddess!!!

FYI it's 416 772 2702

Stay cool or cum and get hot sweaty with me!!

Ciao

Sandi