Ahhhhhhhh witling, let me be just as blunt.
quoting witling.....If you feel the modest VIP membership fee doesn't provide you enough value then maybe your time here isn't of any value either. At the very least it doesn't give you much room to complain.*********
So if one is not a VIP, then they aren't valuable to this site and don't have any right to complain? Correct? Admins care to chime in on this?
If I decide to join the VIP, it will be my decision and is none of your business. Why I haven't joined is my business and mine alone, however it has nothing to do with the running of this site or who the admins are.
I have posted on Costa Rica starting with the old Redsnake site, then Club Hombre, Costa Rica sex, YMMV, and now here. I have also helped out my brothers in ASPD on many occasions. So I have given back far more than I have gained.
And your post , more especially the part quoted above, is the exact proof of what I have posted in this thread...........is this site turning into the haves versus the have nots? I know why this site was started, and I know what the intent of starting it was. I respect the admins and what they are doing here, however I am seeing, at least in this thread, that this site may be heading for a pay site only status. I do not have a problem with the admins making money on this site, actually they probably break even to keep costs down. I do, however, thank you for your smug try at a flame, because the body of your post, the context, shows in written proof, what I was attempting to say.
I have been around many sites for many years and have moderated two different sites, so don't attempt to hang some sort of newbie status on me.
This could have been handled by pm's or you could not have attempted to gain some sort of 'admin. wannabe' status and 'put me in my place' in front of the admins and other membership. witling, this is pretty much a 'flame resistant' site, so lets keep it that way.
Bottom line is this........if needed I don't mind being put in my place, however I am damned well particular about who does it and just as particular about how and WHERE it is done.[/quote]