My girlfriend visits her ex and she says she gonna introduce me but still...

[Big]

...has yet to happen? Ok so my girl who I have been with for a year now, she goes to her ex boyfriends house to visit cause they are just friends she says. About a month ago she told me its time I meet him, well that has yet to happen I ask her when and now she tells me that's a touchee subject, her best friend told me she would never go back to him. So I just wander if maybe there is something there still with them, he's got money and she does some work for him as well. Is this a girl thing , what is your opinion girls. Thanks.

 

[Bill F]

Yeah, come on, man.

There is absolutely no reason she has to GO TO THE HOUSE to maintain her friendship. That's why God invented cell phones and email. She is taking advantage of your trust and just crapping on it to maintain a relationship with him. Think about it: What can she do in person that she can't do on the phone or in an email? And add to that her evasiveness in your meeting him.

I know you want to trust her, but I really think she's playing you for a fool, and it's time to lay down the law. Tell her to hit the road. You must realize there are tons of women out there who would never even dream of making you put with the kind of crap she's trying to make you put up with.

And before you tell me, no no she's not like that, how do you KNOW? You don't, even after a year - trust me on this.

 

[Melsy]

I'm gonns be honest here..I've never been able to just be friends with ex boyfriends. Something always ended up happening. The only way I was able to move on, was to stop contacting them altogether. This is me though, it could be different for other women. Do you trust her? I mean, she is probably telling the truth, esp if she has mentioned you meeting them. If it is bugging you that bad, you could just tell her how you feel. Obviously you cant stop her from doing what she wants, but you could just tell her that you are a little uncomfortable with the fact that she hangs out with them but maybe if you got to know them too, you can all chill together.

 

[Andrea Gkjm]

I have no idea. Maybe they might just be friends but lets be realistic do you still talk to your exes? I don't. Just keep your guard up and see how things go. Whats the point of you meeting the ex? your the one in her life now...fuck him.