Simply put, their are two types of MP..mind you its my experience of 10/15 years and not an empirical study...
- the first will give you a list of options with prices . I suggest you mostly avoid this type like the plague.The girl is in this only for the money and she is really telling you that you are only a financial transaction.
- the second type, will not ask for money and will expect you to tip. She is most likely a nicer person than #1 and will allow you some freedom de pending on you and her mood. This is my preferred type and the one I most often encounter.
- their is possibly the third type. She wants to be sure you will give her a tip and will say it cost more money. I then do not give her the chance of giving me a price list. I just say I will give her $40 extra and that is all I have. The mp at that point may pout but usually agrees with the amount. I then proceed with the massage as if nothing happened; I do NOT mentioned what I would like because she is liable to put a limit. ITS really a big YMMV situation, just like a date (because she is not an escort).
As for undressing, it varies with the masseuse and the place. When I used to go to to VIP on Queen Mary , just south west of Decarie, most masseuse would strip buck naked but others would not in the same place. If the massage place allows the MP to strip completly, most will do it. Also if their is a lock on the door, its a good hint. By reading the posts on a place you generally get an idea of how liberal it could be...
But if you are unlucky enough and the masseuse has to answer the phone because she is alone and waiting for another masseuse OR she is often dismassageplanet.neted by someone the other side of the door, the whole massage is a write off. Nothing will really happen because she is doing two things at the same time.
Also, if the masseuse get only sensual in the last 5 or 10 minutes or so, its really no-good and do not waste your money. If the advances you make in the earlier part of the massage are refuted or refused or deflected, its also no good. She will control you and give you 5 minutes of pleasure for $40 or $50. this amounts to $480 to $600./hour! do the math....
But since most of us will not reveil intimate details, we all have to read between the lines. Also, for a new person to the massage scene, getting a HJ and the girls top off is a big deal. On the other hand, often the MP will strip completly and will accept daty and touching IF she likes you and you do carress her and participate. As for giving you a bj the first time, my experience is that this is reserved for later encounters since most are aware that this is a riské thing and she (just like a date) will want you leave you wanting for more...
Most women will generally make out with you if they like you and like what they do and reason with their feelings ; most men have their feelings between the legs... So if you approach the whole thing as a financial transaction like: what does this and that cost? You then just told her she is an object and a thing to be bought....(not nice).
Its a no brainer, you buy everything she does; its more an escort set up. But we all have different taste and must respect that.