I love the chat but...
I have seen two ladies to date and have just arranged an upcoming encounter with another.
All three ladies advertise on this site BUT I did not chat to them before seeing them. One lady was Brooke and of course I have since chatted to her in the room here. She is definitely a lovely person who simply enjoys life... that comes across in the chat room and even more-so in the flesh (do yourselves a favour and go see for yourself if you haven't already).
I must admit the medium I prefer is to correspond by email first. You can ask about all the yukky business stuff like costs and if the services you like are on offer. Then you can usually make an informed decision based on the pics you have seen and the manner in which they reply to you. Of course if they have no pics or don't reply within say a week... then at least here in Brissy, we have enough choice to move onto the next selection.
My suggestions for happy chatting (hey... it has worked for me so far):
- Work in advance - try and organise an encounter weeks in advance. I realise some guys/gals prefer to phone around when they are horny. But by picking a date/place a week or two in advance, it makes it a bit more of a special event... something to look forward to.
- Decide what you want - Come up with a list of questions to ask your prospective enchantress. What you like to do... what physical aspects you look for in a bed partner... etc. I deally these should be worded so as to seek a yes/no response. The is no ambiguity with yes or no... although always respect the ladies right to say maybe and always assume that that could mean no. Also, take the opportunity to ask the cost for the length of time you want to spend with her.
- Decide what you need - This is different to what you want. It should be a subset of points in your "want" list that you simply think you must have to enjoy the encounter. If the lady doesn't provide the service, thank her for her time and move on. Avoid feeling obligated and forcing yourself to participate in an encounter you already know is not for you. This is a LOT easier to do over email than it is when you are standing at her Reviewont door.
- Avoid vulgar dialog - Ask "is Greek available" rather than "do you take it up the wrong un". Treating the lady with respect is not going to hurt you and if your queries are worded as such, you shouldn't insult her. Remember, you catch more flys with honey than vinegar.
Most ladies I have emailed have responded favourably to this method of contact... a small minority have not (hey, to each their own). But even with the small minority, the method has still worked as it has indentified to me a lady who I would NOT enjoy spending time with... despite what her pictures looked like (I'm not into vain ppl).
The email contact allows you to get things straight before you arrive. It goes a long way to avoiding the "I reeled back when she opened the door" problem. Booking in advance also avoids the "rung around for four hours" syndrome... I would find this one particular annoying as I could possibly spend more time trying to find a lady than I would actually spend in her company.
There are no hard and fast rules. Some of you may think that this is all rubbish... but it is just how I work and it hasn't let me down yet. Maybe it could work for you... maybe not. That is your call.
Happy chatting.
Sticks
PS: Stick to the ladies on Nikki's wondeful AustBabe site and you can't really go wrong!