sex & chat is amazing? I swallowed every ounce of pride last month & arranged to meet with my ex & tell him that I am still in love with him & would really like to get back together - he knocked me back. Gutted! He had the best looks, sex & banter & I really miss him. Last weekend he text me, asking if I wanted to meet up. I really want to - though I know what will happen - cracking night at the pub followed by amazing rampant sex. Then I will bugger off home & suffer like a diabetic after too much sugar & then the whole heartache process starts again. What to do? Live for the moment or have some self control!?