Hey Aznlover,
You know what, I suppose when I first came to Canada I would kinda consider myself a "FOB", and yes, I suppose I am more or less "whitewashed" now=)
That being said, I have friends whom I would consider as "FOBS"...and yes I know being chinese that a lot of our thinking is pretty ignorant...I just find it really stupid way back when I use to go into a restaurant or something that I'll get looks because I wasn't white, and now I go to the mall with a white female friends and I still get dirty looks...you just can't win...
Haven't we learn already that it doesn't matter what our gender/enthnic backgroud/religious beliefs are...we all human beings created equal...
sigh....I guess going back to the original post...I'll be ticked if say I walk into IT/HFH and they say sorry, we don't serve no Asians...and if I go with a friend to Silver Spings and they go sorry no whites...I think once they're done renovating, we should confirm whether this is true with Silve Spings and take it from there...while I'm sure there're enough business from Asians to keep the place afloat...it certainly won't be good business to alienate massageplanet.net members.