We know her from one of our groups. She has a seriously drooping eyelid, and a general "I feel like cr@p!" look about her. She has a severe underbite, serious TMJ, mild fibromyalgia, tension everywhere possible, the recent spring weather has been wreaking havoc on her sinuses and ears, and she has recently begun to experience extreme dizziness-- to the point of having fallen down three times yesterday. She also had her precious 2yo little boy with her (single mom), and stress was written all over her. She said she feels like her energy is "dead".
She asked if we might be able to help her. My first question (in my head) was WHY is she so dizzy she's falling down?
DH had a client show up right then, so we waited until he got him into the room before continuing with our discussion. I know that he (DH) had spoken with her some about energy/Qigong stuff at some of the meetings, and she is interested in seeing if we/he can help her "fill back up". She also wants help from the constant pain she is in. She said that she has been told that she have joint replacement surgery on her jaws, both sides. She's bone-against-bone, and the slightest hit could cause serious damage (she has a rambunctious 2yo boy! For anyone not familiar with 2yo boys, they love to head-butt, lol!).
I had her sit in our nice comfy rocker and lean back, then I did some hair-pulling for her. She was so tender, I couldn't even do the lightest lymphatic drainage I know how to do on her face. The hair-pulling seemed to help her some-- she said it felt like I was releasing tension around her jaws as I did it in certain spots.
I told her that personally, I was not comfortable touching her any further than that until/unless she got clearance from a doctor that massage wouldn't cause any harm. I told her that I am not qualified to even begin to try to help "diagnose" what is going on with her (though I do suspect that it is a combination of things, though I don't really know WHAT things other than the obvious TMJ, sinuses, and serious emotional and physical tension.) I gave her the name of a local "wellness doctor" (quotes are not sarcastic, they're to indicate "lack of a better term") who is a combination chiropractor/nutritionist/acupuncturist/massage therapist and probably a whole lot more.
The biggest question for me is, no matter what individual issues she's dealing with, that dizziness/falling thing worries me. I don't know that there's not something going on inside that I could somehow examassageplanetate if I were to work on her. I'm worried that there could be an underlying CNS thing... or something. I asked her to at least give the chiro/doc a call and see what she has to say. I doubt she'll be able to talk her out of/offer her a viable alternative to the surgery (I don't know if there IS a viable option to it, for her situation. That's not for me to say!), but I'm hoping that she'll at least be able to give her/me some understanding of whether massage might be contra-indicated or not.
I'm pretty sure the hair-pulling and simple breathing exercise I did with her couldn't harm her, but I'm not sure about much else. Did I do right? Would you have booked her an appointment anyway, or what? If so, what would you offer her? (Even if it's something I/we probably don't offer, I'd like to know anyway.) What do y'all think of this client's situation?
She asked if we might be able to help her. My first question (in my head) was WHY is she so dizzy she's falling down?
DH had a client show up right then, so we waited until he got him into the room before continuing with our discussion. I know that he (DH) had spoken with her some about energy/Qigong stuff at some of the meetings, and she is interested in seeing if we/he can help her "fill back up". She also wants help from the constant pain she is in. She said that she has been told that she have joint replacement surgery on her jaws, both sides. She's bone-against-bone, and the slightest hit could cause serious damage (she has a rambunctious 2yo boy! For anyone not familiar with 2yo boys, they love to head-butt, lol!).
I had her sit in our nice comfy rocker and lean back, then I did some hair-pulling for her. She was so tender, I couldn't even do the lightest lymphatic drainage I know how to do on her face. The hair-pulling seemed to help her some-- she said it felt like I was releasing tension around her jaws as I did it in certain spots.
I told her that personally, I was not comfortable touching her any further than that until/unless she got clearance from a doctor that massage wouldn't cause any harm. I told her that I am not qualified to even begin to try to help "diagnose" what is going on with her (though I do suspect that it is a combination of things, though I don't really know WHAT things other than the obvious TMJ, sinuses, and serious emotional and physical tension.) I gave her the name of a local "wellness doctor" (quotes are not sarcastic, they're to indicate "lack of a better term") who is a combination chiropractor/nutritionist/acupuncturist/massage therapist and probably a whole lot more.
The biggest question for me is, no matter what individual issues she's dealing with, that dizziness/falling thing worries me. I don't know that there's not something going on inside that I could somehow examassageplanetate if I were to work on her. I'm worried that there could be an underlying CNS thing... or something. I asked her to at least give the chiro/doc a call and see what she has to say. I doubt she'll be able to talk her out of/offer her a viable alternative to the surgery (I don't know if there IS a viable option to it, for her situation. That's not for me to say!), but I'm hoping that she'll at least be able to give her/me some understanding of whether massage might be contra-indicated or not.
I'm pretty sure the hair-pulling and simple breathing exercise I did with her couldn't harm her, but I'm not sure about much else. Did I do right? Would you have booked her an appointment anyway, or what? If so, what would you offer her? (Even if it's something I/we probably don't offer, I'd like to know anyway.) What do y'all think of this client's situation?