Warning _Not a Review Thread_For Mature Audiences Only

[Albertaman]

Wanted to share and hear from others who have been enjoying massages (of many kinds) for many many years. So, the rationale for creating this new thread. Gave the thread it's name so people who are only interested in reviews can skip this one and not be irritated by the fact that some people may appreciate sharing their ideas and generalized experiences collected over time. If there are masseuses who check out this forum, your thoughts are welcome too.

To start it off, I will share two items:

1) Not much into new year's resolutions, but I've been experimenting with a new approach, past few months: Restraint and Greater Pleasure. Less is more. Here is how it goes. Past few years, I would easily go for two massages a week, sometimes more. I'm now re-thinking and re-assessing what I most enjoy in massages. I truly enjoy exceptional therapeutic massages. Yes, there is pleasure in them. Pleasure that lasts well after the massage. So, I am seeking out fewer massages, and most of them with exceptional deep tissue masseuses who work hard. For the sensual, erotic side, I am seeking out purists who focus on an entire 60 minutes or 90 minutes of mutual teasing and skin to skin pleasures, but not FS (but got to weed out the so called tantra goddesses who have found their calling after a weekend course or two, but truly don't have a clue). Much harder finding the right masseuse on the sensual side. And of course, once in a while, we are fortunate to find the two qualities combined in one masseuse. My goal is to have fewer massages (definitely cut out the typical rub and tug experiences which are lacking in both dimensions), but to enjoy a deeper sense of pleasure that lasts longer. Say I put $500 cash into my wallet now. Rather than it simply disappear into a series of massages that I can't even remember a week or two later, I am focused on creating better experiences with each wallet fill. Are any of you thinking this way?

2) Subject of happy endings. There are HJs and BJs and BBBJs and BBBJCIM and FS and .......... etc etc etc. But how about indirect induced orgasms? I've experienced rare masseuses in the past (all of them were also excellent therapeutic masseuses), who would massage the bum area, glutes and inner thighs and going all the way down to the ankles in ways that heightened the sensations to a point where I would get a raging hard-on without them stroking the big guy or playing with the balls, all the while I was facing down. Then out of the blue, I would experience this bolt of energy running through and down my spine, and then blow my wad with a force that was more powerful than in any routine sex. I've not seen this type of experience being discussed on this board or other massage boards. But I'm sure others must have had similar experiences. And, are there masseuses here who are skilled at creating these experiences? [I believe that this is the energy that runs through all of us that Tantra in its truest sense seeks to harness].

Please add your own subjects of interest to this thread, along with any responses. And for those who are bored with such a thread, they can just ignore it. Cheers.

 

[luckydog]

Like you, Albertaman, I am spending less time and resources on frequent r&t experiences and looking for intimate exchanges. Harder to find perhaps but worth the pursuit, at least so far. One woman has gone from providing a very excellent massage with happiness included, to being open to GFE type kissing and touching and she enjoys laying back now while I pleasure her. No FS, but much more intimacy than when we first began. Where I have gone for conventional massages has evolved with my therapist as well and I do believe it evolved because we just got to know each other, liked each other, and figured why not. Kissing, touching, body to body and mutual oral expressions of happiness!

It's been a long time since I had an indirect induced orgasm, as you call it. Everything she did to me was erotic touching and massage; hard to explain. She was able to lead me to happiness by massaging the area above my penis and massaging the inner thigh. Yes she brushed up against the boys when she did that but there was no massaging of me in that area. She got to learn when I was on the edge and that is when she would play with or lick my nipples and that was that. Wendy at Xiaping does a similar lower belly massage and I know she is trying to solicit an orgasm by doing that and I have gotten close but not yet.

While I like this thread not being about doing reviews and making recommendations, I would be interested in knowing via pms if there is any massage therapist good at indirect induced orgasms.