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[d3midway]

If your married why go to an MPA/SP ? Just Asking

 

[muzammil]

the hormones are acting up and there's a need for a change of scenery every so often

 

[Paco]

I've thought about this myself, and though I'm not married my guess is that married men consider it not cheating because there's no actual "sex". Going to strip clubs isn't cheating because you're just looking and MPs are the same except you get the release which you can't at strip clubs.

That's my theory at least.

 

[koking103]

I love my wife to death, but like Eddie Murphy said, "When you've been eating the same soda cracker for so long, once a while you want a Ritz".

Until I start to feel emotionally attached to an MPA I won't consider it cheating because for me it's purely physical. Now that I think of it, I go for the same reasons you do! The only difference is that us narried guys can get FS whenever we want whereas you single guys can't!

 

[Natasha]

Single guys can get FS whenever they want too

 

[SecuritySupportAV]

Poor Woody the only guy who waited till he got married for fs. It is the 2000s and shockingly enough single guys do have sex before marriege.

P.S Woody please dont tell me you got married just for this reason.

 

[andy dufresne]

Are there any ladies who would care to respond. How would you feel if your spouse went to an MPA/Sp?

 

[L D]

Many of you guys are obviously not married or married long enough. What married guy get fs or evena HJ for that matter whenever he wants? Based on my experience and most of the guys I know, this is a fantasy world you're living in.

 

[Schrei!]

Hmmmm.... this guy came in the other night and asked me for FS, obviously I said no and he was quite dissappointed and he said that he really wanted to cheat on his wife and when I asked why, he said that it was because she had cheated on him!!

I guess that hobbying is a form of cheating, however it is much less severe than having a one night stand or an affair.

Personally if I found out that my man was seeing an MPA I'd be pissed about the money more than anything 'cause I'm secure enough to know that he wouldn't find a better massage than the one that I could give him anyway.

I once massaged a woman because she found out that her husband whom she had recently divorced had been coming for a massage and she wanted to know what is was all about - naturally I gave her a BS and she walked out with a huge grin on her face!

If these places existed for women, would you guys consider it cheating??

 

[xxx_wowz_xxx]

If there were massage places for women? I would like to go to.
Sounds interesting!!. I am very open minded and would not mind and in fact would encourage my better half to engage in such activity if she so wished.

 

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Even if it was a masseure as opposed to a masseuse?, if so, you're a better man than I, Hypocritical I know.

Jazzman

 

[Eclipse Vancouver]

I'm single but have alot of married buddies. They go to MP because the relationship has changed since they got married. They lack the passion they once use to have and sex is now infrequent especially after you start having children. Some of my married friends aren't even in love anymore. Only in the relationship for the sake of the kids. Lets face it. There are alot of unhappy marriages out there and MP and SP help to make things alot easier IMHO.
dannyboy

 

[? Christina angel baby ?]

This will open a can I am sure...

I have been in the hobby for the better part of 2 marriages, and now a serious relationship, spanning the last 10 years. I have taken part in the hobby while 1. Married and 2. Single.

As a friend once told me, I love being married, I just don't like the white jacket that comes with it! Seriously though, I think a lot of us are in the hobby for a long period of time for varrying reasons. Myself, I am addicted in the sense that I am forever looking for my Sexual soul mate. I have had many, many great girlfriends/wives/lovers...etc.

It boils down to this: like smoking, MP's and the whole underground scene are habitual. The thrill of who will be behind the door, will we connect, will it be good/bad, what about next time? I could go on, but I think you get the gist of my point. Will I ever be content? I don't know, but I do know that life is short, and I will be damned if I miss out on any of it!

 

[jacks mom]

After having kids, some wives (most of my friends wives... according to my friends) have basically lost interest in sex and the passion is gone. The kids have become their priority and also their excuse when the husbands are in the mood. The wives will say they are too tired from looking after the kids and the house..... After time, this is too much for the husbands to bare and are forced to look for an outlet...MP's, SC's, and even SP's. In some cases, friends have told me that they are lucky to have sex with their wives 1 -2 times per year. Even in those cases, the 1 -2 times are just to get it over with...no passion.

 

[helterskeltergoneawry]

Those whose wives say that they are too tired from looking after the kids and the house...I wonder how much they help out with these responsibilities. We seem to have gone from the traditional nuclear family with Dad bringing home the bread and Mom staying home with kids, doing housework and making preserves in the kitchen, to a model where the Mom now goes out to work because one salary doesn't cut it anymore. But when Mom gets home, in many cases, she then does grocery shopping, cooks dinner, cleans house, reads the kids a bedtime story, etc. The tone of some of the messages above seems to blame the wife for loosing interest in sex. So I am wondering if those same Dads are the ones who come home, put in 15 minutes with the kids, then suck back a beer and watch tv all evening. And then they wonder why the wife has lost interest in sex. Of course, I am sure massageplanet.net Dad's wouldn't be the ones that don't do their share around the house....that would be those other guys.

Q.

 

[Tamry]

I have thought of this befor, Is it cheating...of course it is. Is there degree's of cheating....of course there are. So is going to a mpa when your married cheating...YES. Is it a better or worse than an affair, personaly I think its way better than an affair. Most married guys love there wife and don't want a new wife or girlfriend, they are looking for what you get from a movie a 1hrs of escape from reality with no conditions
I think its just marginal worse that masmassageplanet.netating to a porn movie

 

[Naz F]

Yeah right..in Toronto? Single women...maybe.
Why are people surprised that married guys like sex outside. I am married and CAN have sex at any time night or day. (My SO has never said no in the 14 years I've known her). But so what?
I have a car, but I still ride the subway.

 

[mzjilly]

Although I'm not married- I have been engaged for quite some time and I frequently go to MPs. It's the thrill of something new and it really isn't cheating becaue there is no emotional involvement, no kissing, no sex- when you look at it this way it is an innocent, safe way to curve your cheating. My Girlfriend know that I go to MPs, and in her opinion it is no different from going to a strip club- both are fantasy.

 

[Henock]

Either your women is very understanding saying that there is no difference between an MP & an SC or you aren't telling her the whole truth about what goes on in MP's

 

[agent 007]

She must be imagining that a pretty girl gives you a back rub in a bikini.