What is the real definition of GFE?

[Melony]

We mostly associate acronyms with this term. Like DFK,BBBJ, are 2 of the most sought after acronyms and often its stated that without these 2, a GFE is impossible. Does it really all about DFK and BBBJ?

 

[Mace [Is The Stig]]

IMO,

GFE is BBBJ, DFK/LFK, MSOG, DATY

But I guess everyone has their own definition. I believe that there is another thread on this topic

http://www.massageplanet.com/rboard/showthread.php?5920

 

[Queen of America]

GFE is not about term, Its about the experience provider gives to you, if she can makes the session feel like no financial involvement, thats GFE for me.

 

[Colby]

Since the term isn't agreed upon, it's a bit useless. I ignore it when I read her ad and look for other terms.

It's about her style and attitude, more friendly and less mechanical. It can be a covered BJ or no BJ at all but kissing should be part of it.

 

[Roy]

Agree with the kissing part auggie but GF do not give CBJ

 

[Haruhi-X]

The term GFE generally means you are playing with a pro but which base you get to usually depends on what you bring to the game and the ever present chemistry factor .

About the only guarantee is cock in pussy and everything else is YMMV

 

[hot lips]

Why would it bother you that a certain level of service is expected? I for one expect when GFE is advertised, BBBJ, DFK/LFD, DATY, FS. If anyone of these services is missing then it should not be called GFE!

 

[Florida Girl]

Same here, but I am ok with cbj.

 

[walk 112 ??l?]

Very cool of you. Some of the guys try to force feed the bbbj into GFE to make it only defined one way, when the actual thing about GFE is that it is more than straight up traditional FS only, not that it must have bbbj. Not that long ago, sps did not provide (normally) anything like kissing, or bjs with FS sessions, and no daty, etc etc. There have been alot of changes, by trying to force the bbbj "or else" GFE cannot be used is a popular one, and totally beside the point.

If someone is looking for (or to advertise) more risky activities with less restrictions there is a perfectly good PSE term that they can use. That is a great one to show that they are providing bbbjs, DT, CIM (or similar), and greek is available. Trying to pigeon hole all those things into the GFE term is ridiculous, since why have two different terms if the two things are so similar?

Not too many gfs require covered sex either, so if a GFE sp does a cbj along with that cfs, are you really serious that that is a good argument?

GFE simply means the sp provides more than FS in the session, then it is up to her what that includes but it definitely has to include more than FS or she shouldn't be using. It falls COMPLETELY on the client to ensure what he is looking for is included. And it is COMPLETELY his responsibility if his hygiene fails to meet minimum Health Dept requirements in such a way that the sp is forced to deny him that particular service for fear of picking up something nasty, or gagging before the DT happens.

 

[Nadi]

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gfe

"Like the others said, GFE=Girlfriend experience. In some situations, it also means that the prostitute/escort is willing to perform some services without condoms, akabarebacked, usually blowjobs(BBBJ).
My friends said that getting blown without a jimmy by the incall girl was a bad idea. But she promised a GFE, and honestly, do you know anyone whod use a rubber to get blown by their girlfriend? Seriously."

 

[Carver Descartes]

I agree with JJF's expectations. If the client is not up to par, poor hygiene, possible STI, then as always YMMV should apply.

 

[Angelic Marie From Hell]

As I've said in another thread, expectations of what a GFE is vary not only from the provider's perspective, but also from the client's perspective. Not every guy is looking for the same kind of GF, and therefore, not every guy is looking for the same kind of GFE.

Case in point: for some guys, a GFE means lots of cuddling, kissing, and intimacy. For others, it means the illusion of a GF who will indulge you in some kinky play, like pissing on you, letting you dress as a furry, or let you spank her ass.

Attempting to define, once and for all, what GFE means is therefore a necessarily vain attempt. Instead of trying to police the term, why not just focus on looking for those providers who fit your definition of GFE.

 

[nicky c]

I fully support this.

 

[TheGoldenGael]

Bang on the dime, agree 100%. :great:

 

[Pompal 09.]

GFE . . . Great Fucking Experience???

 

[MMA]

To me GFE means that i don't feel like I am paying. The lady is going to make it as real as she can. My expectations when I read GFE is that there is a good attitude in place. There will be some romance and fun in the session. DFK, BBBJ and some passion are menu items that i expect when i read GFE. I appreciate when the SP puts Safe GFE in her description if the CBJ is in play. I'm usually looking for phrases like True GFE or Passionate GFE when I'm researching my TDL.

 

[Kami y]

I agree with JJF, Rayden and 4times definition. When I see GFE advertised, I expect a bbbj to be included, if not I expect to see Safe Gfe. I will also add Daty and at the very least LFK should be included.

I prefer to see the menu items listed with a YMMV added at the end. I believe Mirage lists the services provided.