Why become an MP?

[Neha R]

OH MPA2...you know it's coming again...

Here's my question for you girls today! the more that answer the better here:

Why did you choose MPA as the choice of revenue?

Why MP's over SP's? Why MP's over SC's? If you were talking to a girlfriend of yours whos in the business or not, would you try to convince her to become an MPA or other and why?

 

[Barb Outhere]

Ok here we go....

An ex bf of mine told me about a friend of his sisters that worked in an MP. He told me she made lots of $$ massaging men and didnt have to have sex with them. That stayed in mind for a few months, and then I started looking through the classifieds. I cant say much more about the process from A to B, because it would reveal where I worked and therefore who I am...but next thing I know I started my first shift! Worst day ever! lol! But the gals were awesome and my wallet was full. Somehow that brings u back....now in hindsight, its a good thing I had the patience then. Although my sessions SUCKED until yr 2! LOL Now I have no patience for hassle. We either have fun, or there is the door!

Im way to self conscious to strip, although Im an amazing dancer and drool over hot strippers! lol. After wearing my MPA hat for so long, I think if I were to jump into FS/SP-land, I would have by now. For me, I sleep with a clear conscious at night MP-ing.

I have had the talk with friends before, in interviews hiring new girls, etc. Its not a hard chat. Once you explain the no sex, no blowjob thing, most girls then relax. Once we talk money and licensing, I've generally got them convinced! lol

 

[cambay]

So why does anybody bother with the SP/FS thing? Surely it can't be a money/greed thing, i'm sure the MPA world is decent enough.

And what's wrong with blow jobs and sex? What fun!

 

[killbasabill]

*re: bj and sex...the fun in *receiving* them (before I get blasted for saying something not clear enough)

 

[The King Of Kings]

I dont know, ask an SP why...LOL I dont have a smartass answer LOL

nothing is wrong with that....but I can tell you this...Im single, but if I were to go home to a hubby and he asked me for a massage and HJ I'd tell him to go fuck himself! LOL Like asking a chef to cook after a long day! I like the differences. I like the alter ego.

 

[raf viaxogs]

but...if you had a hubby, and he asked for sex and a blow job...then you'd oblige no problem

btw..i know a few chefs...and they would still like to cook afterwards because they wouldn't be able to stand bad or bland food.....

 

[Kayleigh]

LOL yes, happily and then some!

LOL ok fine ur right...I recently had this chat with a friend...being a decent MPA and a bit of a book worm, I study my craft (amongst other things)...I have reached a rather saddening stale-mate in my personal sex life....

I know a man's body inside and out....I know that in 30mins I can blow his marbles, rock his world, and teach him a thing or two about himself....EASY right?? So whats in it for me??

HMMMM......

One nite stand? Casual fling? FWB? ......

NO! Because again, chances are Mr-One-Nighter isnt gonna hit my all time best list, so we are back to how great it will be for HIM!

So bland food, I totally get! If Im gonna have mediocre sex/orgasms....I'd rather go to work and make a buck and not add a John Doe to my notches on my belt.

 

[Kali]

MEDIOCRE? You told me it was the best ever

and then I woke up........but okay....i think it makes sense from the MPA world...I just don't understand it from the SP world.......more risk, more personal....why bother when MP's seem to have the best of both worlds...

 

[Pompal 09.]

again, ask an SP!!! I'd love to know their take on their choice!

 

[Artemisc]

For your run of the mill SP, I'm guessing it's just easier to get fucked than to work at the whole art of seduction. That's not to say that all SPs are like that.
Can you imagine going to one of those asian incall places in Sauga or Scarberia and trying to get a sensual massge?

 

[Victoriaaa.]

true...but i've been to many an MPA who are quite mechanical and lack sensuality....and don't go above and beyond like some of the better MPA's....

 

[nice_advice]

MPA squared - where can we meet and I will be ur sugar-daddy and f*ck u long and hard.

 

[Marc]

look buddy. i need to get laid again. dont butt in on my pick up of MPA2

 

[God]

Heres what you should do : Send her over to my place. 1st she can see if she can make me cum by lapdancing for me which I doubt she will. Then we will try a massage HJ. 3rd we will get completely freaky with BBBJCIMSW, rimjobs, toe sucking and lots of greek. I will tell you which profession she is best suited for...

 

[Stranger 4 You]

after u are done with her. send her to my place for sloppy seconds. moohahahhaha.

 

[Black orchid]

You guys are almost too much! LOOOOOL!!

1. my lap dances ROCK! (ummm bodyslide vet here!)
2. my HJ skills can match that of a pussy/mouth
3. I only BBBJCIMSW with men I love...so far, only 3 in my whole life, NON professionally. Rimjobs are a-ok on me sans SP profession (YMMV), and toe sucking rocks my world when done right. LOL Greek...unless you can numb me up, devirginize, and have a buddy for a hot DP...NO WAY IN HECK! lol

1 + 2 + 3 = MPAsquared is best suited to be an MPA!!!!!!!

Cheers!

 

[Mimkat]

She may be best suited to be an MPA but she is best as an unsuited MPA!

 

[brendan y.]

LOL Thats a bit much no? We all love sex. Im a randy lil thing myself...but do I "LOVE" giving massages and HJ's? NO! I'd much rather get them, LOL! And thats as honest as can be..."Loving what they do" ... I can only comment about 'loving' what I do...love is a word often tossed around lightly. I only use it if I mean it. When you love something its unconditional and out lives life itself. So do I LOVE my job, NO. I like it, most days. No one loves it when you have an asshole, or a smell you have yet to become immune to. Or a day you get ripped off...those are the days you really contemplate things...or days when someone goes too far.

Guys its not all orgasms and 4play. Luckly, with experience you a) learn how to handle certain things b) decide not to put up with certain other things and c) have regulars with whom you enjoy. I enjoy telling a funny story now and then about the biz, but I have some not-so-pretty ones too.

As we all know, SP's, dancers, MPA's, porn stars, dominatrix, etc all work for the $$. Thats a given. From that point when you walk in the door, you have 2 choices....let it eat you alive and live for the $$...OR...make the best of all of it and get whatever good things/people/experiences/life lessons you can from it, and live making money. And the latter makes you like it

 

[Bobbie]

I know what you mean. I dated a dancer for a while. She had two personas. One was her SC persona. The other was her civilian persona. Yes, they are different. The different names also helped. In the SC she was "Scorpion". In civilian life she was "Susan". Thus, she was able to separate her SC life from her civilian life. Thank goodness.

 

[Clint]

You guys talk in codes... Can anyone tell me what is BBBJCIMSW, Rimjobs, YMMV, and Greek? I saw some of these codes before, but never understood it... what are these codes for?