Easy to get laid in Japan?

[jd59]

Thanks. I am sure I am some days.

I am very happy. But of course I wish sometimes I had traveled a bit more and mongered a bit more -would I have been as happy? Likely not -but I would have had adventures.

 

[Alex J]

Hardslam - I am well aware of you and Grace, hell, I remember you posting about your first date on the Thailand thread "Newbie Has Landed". I am glad you and she are happy.

BTW, I think you are an old romantic at heart.

 

[Froggy McFrogfeet]

J: What a great story! It almost felt like a memory I had -or wanted to have. I have heard great things about Japanese women. And -it was the TV mini-series Shogun that turned me onto Asian women when I was a kid. We did not have any in the town I grew up. But man went I saw one -it was instant wood.

My wife -she is Thai -takes care of me almost the same. Though she does not rush around worrying about it. She will ask if I am hungry, thirsty, need something, etc. and then will get it. And if I try to cook -she gets a bit upset -as its 'her duty' -same if I try to clean.

I can tell you -I started out our marriage feeling guilty most every day as I watched TV and relaxed while she cooks, cleans, etc. -all the time happy to be doing 'her duty'.

My point: Try getting away with ANY of that with an American woman -you cannot. So I second your statement about marrying Japanese women. But would add -Asian women. They know how to treat a man like...well...a man. And as long as you give them simple respect and love -they just keep on giving.

 

[Namibnat]

I think if you want quality younger girls in their mid 20s it helps to be younger. Older Jap men have a bit of a nasty rep for being perverted and chauvanist. But there are some gems there. When I lived in London I met a girl from Tokyo online who was 26 (I was 24) and I stopped in Tokyo on the way back to Australia to meet her. She sent me some photos and I was really impressed so i thought it was a goer. The first meeting she brought her mate with her which was understandable and that was on a Friday night. The following Sunday she sent me a message to meet up and she pretty much insisted on coming back with me to my mate's place in Ibaraki. She put out real good and she was one of the so called "good girls" and had only been with one other guy in her life.
Second meeting with her a year later on my way back to London I met her again. Only problem was, on the plane I met a 41 year old Australian lady who was a total glamour for her age. Anyways she had an airport hotel at Narita for the night and invited me back there after we touched down. I was already an hour late to meet the Jap girl at Ueno, and I was atleast an hour and a half away. Anyways i got to Ueno 2 hours and 20 minutes late and my girl was waiting for me on the platform. She was pretty pissed off, but with international travel there are always scores of reasons for lateness.
She helped me locate my hotel in Shibuya and we had an awesome night. A few days later I took a Shinkansen to Shimonoseki to catch up with a Korean girl studying there. On the way down on the train I met a 38 year old Japanese artist who just struck up a yarn when she saw me reading a phrase book. Alot of them are really quite outgoing and do enjoy talking to gaijin so if you're smartly dressed and can bust out some nihongo, you should have no problems dipping you wick.

 

[onetuffgirl]

Yep, I would pretty much agree with that.

 

[faerie]

Sounds like you would agree with the old joke:

""Heaven is having a Japanese wife, a Chinese cook, a British country home and an American salary. Hell, on the other hand, is having a Chinese salary, a British cook, a Japanese house and an American wife."

 

[mdigitale]

I think it's more or less the same.

I had forgotten about the "do you teach Engwish?" or "can I practice my Engwish wif you" approach of some women. Sometimes this is used as a way for girls to approach you and is a great way to trade phone numbers or emails or whatever and you take it from there.

I also agree with the poster who said clubs and bars are a waste of time. I found the best place to meet girls were trains, train stations, parks, along the street, etc.

The Japanese are an absolute trip when you stay there a while and get to know them. And without catering to sterotypes, they really can be somewhat inscrutable at times. Life is kind of hard there (incredibly work oriented), particularly for women, and a lot of Japanese women like western men because we are more open and liberal towards women (I am speaking of how things were 20 years ago, maybe things have changed) and are a breath of fresh air for them and they see gaijins as exotic.

The second true love of my life was a Japanese girl I met there, named Mariko - this was in the late 1980s. She was absolutely beautiful (way out of my league), doted on me, took care of me in ways no other women has (things like would panic at the thought that I didn't have dinner and would rush over with a full meal cooked and would hand feed me with chop sticks), balance my checkbook for me, clean my apartment, wash my clothes, get my suits dry cleaned without asking, make me things, meticulously pack my luggage for trips, taught me her langauge and about her country, etc. In bed she was fantastic, gave some of the BJs I have ever had - I was in love. Unfortunately, I wasn't ready to get married (she was desperate for me to ask her), couldn't keep my dick in my pants (which by the way, she tolerated to a certain degree so long as I was discreet about it) but it blew up for other reasons, she was terribly hurt by it and we lost touch. I have always regretted how it ended but one thing I have learned, you can't "just be friends" with a woman after an intense long term relationship, it doesn't work.

She was the "road not taken" for me in life and sometimes I wonder how things would have turned out if I would have settled down with her. But then again, knowing me, it wouldn't have worked.

The moral of this sob story is, if you are out there looking for a wife (I'm not), take it from someone who has been lucky enough to see much of the world and their women - in general, Japanese women make outstanding companions.

 

[Iris]

what about age ? Do young jgirls date older men .. lets say a 25 year old with a 50 yr old guy ... in good shape .. dresses nice ... In other asian country no problem what about in Japan ?

 

[Avinash kumar]

Jgals who date Cocojin (black gaijin) rarely date white gaijin, and visa versa. Most Jgirls will date no gaijin at all, but there are so manyavailable that this does not matter, particularly in Tokyo.Many Tokyo gals are originally from other parts of Japan and only visit their parents at New Year and Obon (in August), so it isnt hard to keep their parents in the dark about their gaijin koibito. Never meet their parents, very few older Japanese approve of inter racial relationships.

 

[Gipsy]

Always make a move on the first date. This avoids wasting time. In Japan many Jgals will go on a date with you not because they want sex with you but rather many see you as a free English lesson, a chance to practice their English. There are so many prospects in Tokyo that you dont need to waste time.When I first lived in Japan I made the mistake of waiting tillafter a fewdates o make a move, only to find that they only wanted a gaijin as a friend out of curiosity or for free eigo lessons. Japan is a very sexually open culture, a girl wont be offended if you try it on the first night. Always dress well, a suit in winter and quality jeans shirt and shoes in summer. As in many other countries men wear shorts only at the beach or playing sport, no matter how hot the summer day. As in other Asian countries dont talk to anyone without first removing your sunglasses.

 

[Messenger007]

Oz is right on the money. If you can speak a little nihongo and dont go out looking like a cat's breakfast you should be able to score some phone numbers at coffee shops and chicks just walking the street. When I was in Tokyo, though only briefly, I found it easy to approach girls. I'm 26 and my jap skills are not excellent but ok, and there is a abundance of chicks who will see you as an opportunity to practice English. If you can capitalise on this and if you're a reasonably looking guy, you can take full advaneforum.xxxe of the acquaintance.

There are jap girls out there who wont date anyone but a white gaijin. There are girls who will only date black gaijin and of course there are some who dont want to know you, black or white.

 

[Doctor]

I wrote extensively on this topic last year. Jeremy offers good advice on what Jgals like. It is easy to get laid in Japan if you put the effort in, above all learn Japanese. It is however not a country worth moving to only for pussy, like Thailand or PI, there are probably far more working girls than in Thailand, but most only go with Japanese men and prices of course are a lot higher than SEA. Japan is good for non pro action but take many stories of Japan with a large grain of salt. Bars are not the way to go in Tokyo, they are small so not huge numbers of Jgals in each, the cost is high, in nongaijin nightclubs such as Womb, Club Nuts or Club Asia you pay 3k yen to enter usually, and if you go outside you have to pay again to come back (this also applies to Japanese patrons). Gaijin bars in Roppongi Ebisu Shibuya and many other areas don't charge to get in, however if over 30 you are competing with 20 something gaijin who the english speaking jgals have come to meet. If under 30 a good option though, most tokyo gaijin are under 30 and speak little or no japanese, so they crowd into the few gaijin bars usually outnumbering the jgals.
Malling train stations coffee shops anywhere at all ismuch better than the bars. If your Japanese is excellent then the non gaijin japanese clubs are great, few tokyo gaijin will fork out 3k yen for the entry so youll be the only oroneof very few gaijin in the club. It aint worth moving there just for the pussy though.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Hey guys, I have been off mpnet for a long time now but tonight I will write one of my usual lengthy dissertations on this subject.

 

[His LadyBug]

I haven't spent much time in Japan since the late 1980s early 1990s, with one brief stint in the late 1990s, but it was fairly easy to get laid (I consider myself average looking). I can't emphasize enough though that you should learn some Japanese though which you can learn fairly quickly.

Japanese girls seem to like men who are well dressed and groomed (presentable) and gentlemanly, then you move in for the kill (o.k., bad way to put it). This will make me sound like a bad guy, but I found friends of girlfriends very much available.

Japanese girls often act naive and silly (particularly in groups). I found them as a whole very good in bed.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I've been thinking the same thing. I want to get an TESOL certificate and find out myself. I read on some ESL website that Japan is the easiest place to get a job teaching English. It has the least amount of red tape, but the cost of living is high and the language is difficult.

I haven't been to Japan, so I'm not claiming to know anything about it, but a girlfriend of mine in Viet Nam was learning English from a European man that had taught in Japan, and he told her that he had sex with the Japanese school girls. He also said they lile Western men and wanted to know how is it to have sex with them......That's what she told me.

 

[A Wolf at the Door.]

I haven't been to Japan in years but when I went there, I had no problem finding to girls to fuck as they like western men. It helps to speak the language.

 

[2hot4u69]

Where is ozgajin when you need him?

 

[Kimberlyannl9]

Anybody teaching or taught English in Japan?.... A thai bird I was seeing in Bangkok who had worked in Japan told me if I were to get a job teaching English in Japan or even Thailand all the schoolgirls would want to fuck me...If only that was true!!.. Guess only one way to find out though... And for those that have been to Japan where's the best place Tokyo, Osaka etc..??? And any recomendations/tips for teaching companies, life over there etc? The lure of pussy is very tempting but I'm not sure if moving to the other side of the world is worth it..how's life over there for a gajin?

Cheers!