How To Treat An MPA

[tinkrbel93]

This thread seems a bit pointless. I mean you treat a MPA with respect first and for most. If it is your perogative to go in to a MP just for the release then do so. The MPA will treat you just like a client that just wants a release. If you treat her better they will treat you better. If you are cold to them they willbe cold to you. If you get all emotional with them, some will be emotional back. It is really what you put in is what you get out of it. I don't know what all the fuss is about...

 

[Antonious]

I'm just curious how you guys treat an MPA? I don't mean if you treat them bad... but I'm referring to how you think of them when you are with them.

For me... the reason I goto an MPA is because I just need to "get off". I don't have a girlfriend myself... but I do have female friends. But last time I checked... the majority of them don't like to be "Just Fucked". So essentially I goto an MPA to "deliver my load" without hurting any of the feelings of girls I know. So I guess in essence... the MPA is just a machine to rub and tug me. I'm not rude... but I'm not always "emotional" with them.

Thing is... I some of the girls I spoke to said they really enjoy the experience when the person treats them special... almost like a gf. But the problem I have is... if I wanted an emotional, caring experience... then I would have just looked for a gf!!! And I definetely wouldn't pay my gf for a handjob. So I kinda disagree with them wanting all this special treatment. I get offended the same way when a stripper asks me to buy her a drink. Why should I????

In conclusion... I look at it as... I'm paying the girl money so that she can provide a service without me being too emotionally sensitive and "cuddly" to her. I figure if I am going to be emotional and cuddly... then I'd just get a GF.

Do you agree... disagree? How do you picture your MPA when you are with her?

 

[Oliver]

What are u trying to say? Having dated two girls that worked in MP industry, do not believe the baloney they feed you.

 

[Becky Curta]

After your first post long ago complaining about bad service at SRM, the last thing I thought you'd be was a stud-muffin. Congrats.

So, are you saying that they are getting upset when you turn down their advances?

Yes, I would agree it is okay not to feel the need to develop an emotional attachment.

 

[Steve H]

What's wrong JC, having a bad night (weekend), are you bored, looking for a fight. If ya need to "deliver your load", go and see farmer jack and get him to hook you up to his milking machine. I'm sure it wouldn't cost that much.
And can you believe that some girls really enjoy the experience when the person treats them special... what can they be thinking.

The huge majority of MPAs I've met exude class. I visit only high-end MPs, and have only been to two this past year. The majority of these ladies are working at a Massage Parlour, because they realize a good living can be made. Many are saving for a house, going to (or planning on attending) College or University. Some have young kids and are raising them on their own.

So in conclusion, I have to say.....maybe its time to start looking for a girlfriend and save on having to pay for hand jobs. Just how old are you anyways. Me thinks you have an awful lot to learn.

 

[Muaz L]

I don't see why everyone is getting bent out of shape over what JC has written. Perhaps I missed something but I don't recall him saying anything about treating MPA's badly or with disrespect.
What I took from his post was simply that he goes to a MP for the rub and tug and not any emotional attachment. Others need and want this in their sessions, so what. People have differing opinions, it's what makes the world go round.

 

[Downtide]

It's like any relationship. You get out what you put into it.

I find the experience is heightened if you connect emotionally. Besides I think MPAs are interesting to get to know. I don't think you'll find a more diverse personality mix in any trade.

MPAs are a means to an end. How you treat the experience is an individual thing.

 

[forgetful]

I'm saying I disagree with MPA's that feel like I am OBLIGATED to treat them like a GF.

 

[leons1701]

Why not ? I have. It's kinda hot. MPAE

Don't be afraid of commitment.


As long as you treat an MPA in a cordial manner with due consideration, I don't think you have to act out something you are not comfortable with.



PS I always find it somewhat amusing and naive when people assume [beyond any doubt] the "girls they know" are not MPAs, dancers or escorts.
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hot

 

[yahoooo!]

Thank you MegaD! I think the reason why certain people are getting upset is because they goto a MPA for a girlfriend experience and they feel like I am putting them down for that. Hence they are becoming defensive.

 

[jordan h]

I should have known from your first post

yes.

 

[Smooch Bat]

That's your problem right there.

Treat them like machines and that's the type of service you're gonna get .... very mechanical. MPA's are human-beings too that have feelings and emotions. I'm not saying you should go all emotional on them, but making them feel special can go a long way and make the session better. You don't have to mean what you say, but saying nice things usually has a more positive outcome. After all, you are paying big bucks ... don't you wanna have a good session ?

Plus, for me, "delivering the load" is not the only reason I go to MP's for. It's the journey that counts leading up to the grand finale. As for how I picture an MPA when I'm with her, I think of them as beautiful "human-beings" of the opposite sex who are there to fulfil my fantasies.

Just like any other profession, treating people positively usually yields a good result.

 

[peat]

Uhh... whatever...

 

[boffin1979]

U have a lot to learn Jack

 

[Domara]

Ok... for you guys who are emotionally attached to a MPA (or more than one)... let me ask... why not just get a gf? Why do you goto an MPA?

Do you goto an MPA for an emotional experience? Or for a sexual one? I mean... strippers... MPA's... SP's... it's all about sex right? I mean if you want emotions... you're supposed to get a GIRLFRIEND.

If you have a girlfriend... and still find the need to "commit" to an MPA... doesn't that mean you don't have the right GF?

 

[harley_cowgirl_20]

Ultimately yes, but not necessarily. Whether emotional and/or physical or some degree of both, it's almost impossible to get everything you need/desire from one person.

 

[Scarlet]

I don't think you are offending anyone. I just think this thread had the inadvertent result of showing who goes to MPA's for girlfriend experiences... lol

This thread reminds me of when my friend got mad at me because I got a lapdance from a stripper I later found out he liked. I was like... "COME ON... she's a stripper! She dances with people for money!". But he thought I was tearing apart his "relationship". lol

 

[dfroggyman]

What I want to know is who these pricks are that treat MPAs like sh%t? I'm not saying I treat them like royalty (well, one of them I did), but all the way back in kindergarden I learned something called 'the golden rule'. All I do is ask them how their day is, or some other menial small talk and the service is great. I figure 'cuz they realize I'm not a social retard who has to pay someone to be mean to... kinda like some of the people I serve in my restaurant... but that's a whole other topic.

 

[BritneyHill]

I treat them how they allow me to treat them. I go in with a positive and friendly attitude, and depending on my mood and how my impressions go I take it from there. I find that by treating the MPA nicely she gives me her best effort (doesn't always work but I give a lot more positive than negative reviews).

Some like to slip into a porno type persona, others go for a more intimate GF/flirty type thing, others go for a buddy type feel, others go for a treat you like a king attitude, others go for a relaxing approach, others go for sensual approach. Course there are also negative attitudes too but I like to focus on the MPAs with the previously mentioned approaches. Anyways, depending on their approach I run with it as I find it better to focus on what their percieved strengths are.

So I have certain MPAs that fit certain moods.

 

[Peter B]

peed my pants on that one... (is that an acronym? PMP?)

Cheers,
Jack.