How To Treat An MPA

[?Socially Awkward?]

I will die to see the MPA who would expect me to treat her like
she is my GF as long as that expectation is confined in the MP.

 

[Maxwell Murder]

Is Angelina saying that ladies on Jarvis are whores and shouldn't be treated with respect?

 

[Jason King]

I think you hit the nail on the head right there in regards to my situation.

So since everybody goes to MPA's for different reasons... would you agree that there is nothing wrong with me going to an MPA for "just" a release... without any emotional attachment? (even if other guys go especially for the emotions)

 

[sophia]

I don't think people are saying that GFE is the be all and end all. I'm suggesting that there's more to massage than just getting off and depending on who I select and my mood I get different types of sessions. E.g. focus on massage, focus on teasing, focus on a body type/looks, focus on a personality/attitude, focus on a technique etc. But the ladies that I like to repeat with usually provide a combination of things for me to enjoy.



As for the GFE being expected in reverse it is strange but not really a phenomenon that I often observe. I usually mention that I like to mix it up with a number of ladies. I can really only think of 3 MPAs that got into various levels of distress over me seeing other people or needing reassurance about their looks. That's a pretty small number given the number of massages that I've had over the years.

 

[fendergrl97]

huh????.... massageplanet.net never ceases to amaze me

lol

 

[rockylad_75]

Aye to that

Jack I know exactly what you are saying (or trying to say) and I totally see where you are coming from.... I think perhaps you didnt write it out quite right; that mixed with the fact that the massageplanet.neties are one super sensitve bunch (ironically) is why this pile on began...

 

[70s]

uuhh... yeah ... they are also:

1) exorbitantly priced for the most part... they arent cheap unless you are EXTREMELY lucky; otherwise they are god awful hideous or a MAN

2) number one on the LE hit list...

3) present in a dangerous environment


Why the hell would someone want to risk more and pay more to be with some "drugged out" girl who most likely has a shitty attitude when there is a cheaper and relatively safer (spa) option??? Theres no streetwalker section here on massageplanet.net ever wonder why?

and how are you so sure that many MPAs aren't "users" either?





When Jack said what he said... he didnt say that he wanted to spend time with a dead fish bitch.. who the hell wants that? sometimes you guys take things too litterally....

as it was said before there are different reasons for Hobbying....Some guys go because they are addicted to women and just want to get off....surpirsingly, some just dont like the "manual" thing and need assitance...and Others are looking for a fantasy... and some go looking for their future wife

just accept it for what it is

 

[BIG_Jason]

LOL... say one thing and then back pedal afterwards....

whatever you say Angelina

 

[Buckwheat]

Hrm... in a way... Angelina is proving my point. See... she's complaining about guys who just go to "get off". She's also showing that it upsets her when a guy goes just to "get off". Angelina... notice how the business is called "Rub-N-Tug"???

The whole thought process behind the sex industry (strippers, mpas, hookers, etc.) is that the girls are being provided money inexchange for sexual acts or even just a sexual fantasy. The whole reason you are being paid is to compensate for the fact that guys aren't necessarily in love with you. In normal circumstances... sexuality is an act of love/caring... but in this case you are being given money as compensation for the fact that true love (or just feelings) doesn't necessarily exist. If an emotional bond exists... then great... but it shouldn't be a requirement.

If you're asking why I would goto a RUB-N-TUG... it's because sometimes I just have tension "down there" I need to get rid off... and I want to do it in a safe place with a pretty girl. I may not have easy access to other girls at that moment... and as opposed to chatting up some girl at a bar... I'd rather just goto a RUB-N-TUG... pay my money... and go home relieved. If I happen to have an emotional connection with a girl... then fine... but sometimes I really don't feel like being super chatty... and just want the act that I paid for.

 

[Mark aka jack573]

I can tell you why. It's a lot better to have a hott girl yanking your chain... as opposed to you yanking your own chain.

 

[XshadyX]

Angelina... if I were you... I wouldn't look down on "hookers" too much. The same way you look down on them... even more members of society are looking down on you. Both you and the hooker are there to provide a service of sexual nature. Don't forget that.

This is definetely a case of the pot calling the kettle black!

 

[KJB]

I've been away from the hobby for a while, but this thread is fascinating.
My money, has been in the SC part of the scene. In fact, I'm was always looking for a new girl to get me off, for a cost effective price.

The way I see it is dancers, are somewhat, like waitresses, or bartenders.
I love drinking, and enjoying myself at a bar/club. In fact, I've been a regular at many. I am always, a gentleman. Polite, perhaps a bit flirty. HOWEVER, as much as I enjoy the social banter, that goes on at a bar, or SC, we both must remember OUR place. If I decide to tell the bartender, my life story, or how my cat got killed on Bloor St., I trust I will have a empathetic ear, to listen to me.
But quite frankly, I may not care to hear about the Bartenders boyfriend, who is cheating with Mrs Robinson up the road.

I think, if I'm paying, I should lead the the conversation, not the dancer, or MPA.
The point, I think, is that, the fun stuff during a dance, or MP session, must be set by the SP, but the "tone" by the customer.

Somedays, I did think the dancer I met, was simply an easy way to assit me to get off, some days, more flirt, and some days, a better conection.
Poilite, anf friendly, with every body, from the PM to the girl at Tim Hortons.
I'm no better tahn anyone else....but when I'm a paying customer, I think I should be able to set some conditions. N'est pas?

 

[Noah H]

Angelinna I don't know why you bother. Inevitably when a MPA comes and takes acception to things being said. They just start attacking you.

I don't think she said she was better than street hookers she was saying that if you want cheap high mileage that's where you guys should go. Yes street action is risky, yes the quality of cheap action is not good but that was not her point. You guys were the ones talking about how all you want to do is get off.

 

[cshs1960]

Lover of Brunettes.

That was sarcasm.

Guess you missed the point.

 

[Ashlie]

Hey Jack-on-crack. Your missing her point. Yes they both provide some
form of "sexual service" but Angelina is far from the "wham bam thank
you ma,am" skank on Jarvis. Angelina provides a service that is Intimate
and GFE that some people wish to partake in. She is only stating
facts about streetwalkers for which most part are true. And what
do you mean "more members of society are looking down on her" huh??

 

[allie]

Hey top-pussy... this thread was never started in relation to Angelina massage. But after her speech... I was just reminding her that although she may think hookers are lower than her... much of society does not differentiate between her "service" and the services of the others mentioned.

 

[ghostdog]

I never said MPA's don't deserve respect... and I think you are taking this waaaaaaay too personally. All I was saying is... I didn't like the fact that some MPA's I've been running into seem to expect you to treat them with the same emotional status as if they were your gf. And otherwise... they are not happy with the session. Last time I checked... I paid for a body slide and a release... not for a cuddle session and a discussion about their day and how she thinks her bf is cheating on her.

I don't need to pay to have a female to talk to.