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[RachelS165]

Thanks Rusty. Please give her my regards next meeting. Tell her I miss her too and would love to pop into one of her sessions sometime. I'm not sure her client at the time would appreciate me popping in though. But if she really wants me to ....

 

[I Love Fun]

I think we can all agree that we love Tarah for the simple fact that she generates so much excitement on massageplanet.net for us. I, for one, love her for so may more reasons ever since I have gotten to know her through the crew meetings i've taken part in. Anyone that knows Tarah the way I do, realizes that she's a very warm and caring kid who wants noting more than to love and be loved.

 

[shell_vac]

Airboss - I was one of the ones who responded to your post and fired back. My problem wasn't about your Tarah opinion as I believe that we are both entitled to differ on this. I ended up saying more about my thoughts on her than I should have revealed but, like you, that was in the moment.

It takes a very big man to publicly apologize and I take my hat off to you.

V12

 

[johnsvolt]

Capo,

Maybe I'm not such a dreamer after all. A well thought out response and I respect your stance.

I'm not sure if you are referring to my post, but your post was only one of the triggers among many, over time, that "inspired" me to comment. ( whether it's any of my business or not, admittedly ) Now that you have made known your intention, I do see where you were coming from more clearly. ( in essence you were trying to communicate, "end of story" it seems )

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I'd like to expand on my comments as they may seem somewhat harsh and judgemental. I cannot comment on others specific individual cases, but in my experience there have been about three times in the past where I have left an MP feeling varying degrees of bitterness and resentment. If I were to write a review at that moment it would come across as hostile, bias, of little more use than a shill and of not much use to anyone, although many people are capable of reading between the lines. I do tend to gain perspective pretty quickly, but it still would have those elements. Generally when people feel hurt or their ego / pride is compromised they tend to become irrational and lash out, which many times manifests itself in an "absolute" and personal attack ( defence ) rather than an objective stance. An objective, well thought out post will generally receive a similar response. ( either that or a knee-jerk reaction as we do tend to see things as we want and have already decided, rather than that which is true )

Over time I've learnt to look at my experiences differently, to an extent, and am more able to rationalise and see the good as well as the bad. It's more like the "good and bad" have emerged into one outlook, which is "the experience". There are many factors involved in an MP encounter. One being that, not everyone is going to feel a chemistry with me and another being that I will not always hit the MPA on their best day. To give an extreme example, I once ran into an MPA who had been traumatised by her prior client. Luckily I was able to turn that situation around.

I know some look at it very much as a business transaction and it is, but if I looked at it purely on those terms it would take away from the overall experience, not to mention the fact I think I wouldn't be true to myself and may be putting up a defencive wall. How the MPA in question looks at it, essentially does not effect my outlook as I'll look at it how I want anyway. If I were to base my outlook in terms of service ( customer satisfaction ) and value, money wise, It would negate from the entire experience for me and detract from the fun. It's a lot easier and enjoyable to have an open outlook. Trying to maintain a balance between the fantasy, my own reality and reality is the key, although sometimes easier said, than done.

I'm aware that in many cases I have high expectations, yet at the same time try to keep perspective and make allowances. Anyway, my point is that if I were still feeling bitter and / or un-objective over an experience to this day, I'd have to ask myself whether it's something within me.

Many come across as "saying it like it is", and it's a respectable trait, but are we actually saying it "how it really is" ...

I'll go away now ...

 

[H B]

Nicely said Airboss, Pool and V12.

 

[Tom H.]

Just for the record, I've never seen Tarah in session, so am not part of any "controversy".

For a quick search on Tarah, CLICK HERE

 

[oswegolindzmeta]

Thanks Paul - lets not tell too many people that we can agree on stuff.

Tarah provided me with one of my best MP experiences. I can see that her fragile nature will probably create some inconsistency but the risk/reward scenario is worth it.

In betting terms, IMO having a session with Tarah is like getting an "overlay" - have fun with the word but you know what I mean.

Oops, ignoring my own advice about tone but WTF, live a little.

V12