Risk of the hobby, many a good man has been broken over these girls. Important to remember, one of my several goodfriends/lovers looked me straight in the eye, and said this, "I love you, it's only work, not the same" ... that a fact.
I've had 6 or 7 very close situations (I'm single), and every time, when given the choice, the girls always choose the spa and the money over a domestic situation. It's inherent in the nature of a spa girl, they are different creatures (no Pretty Women moments in my experience). I've seen a few good man lose it while they tried to rationalize that woman they fell in love with is "fxxking" several others. One of my girls, Sunday lover, when she arrived to see me, she wanted to rest, yet, I aways took her directly to the shower just to make sure it was a clear start. I still laugh about that.
The girls with husbands or boyfriends, the male is always Chinese and they know the work, it's accepted as work, and let's face it the money is good. Possible the husband or boyfriend is home looking after kids and finds it difficult to get work due to language issues. I know at least a dozen with husbands .... recently a friend of my got married to move things ahead and get her son's education costs down for next steps ... I asked if she loved him, her response "kind of like". She was beautiful in her wedding dress photos which she shared with me.
I agree with
@BasedD seems that our pal just found out that his girl was providing lots of services for several customers. As noted, he's not the first and not the last, many tales to be told by the members here over time.
Happy Saturday (no pun intended on the Happy)