Thanks for the honest posting.
Sounds like a tough lesson, and we all seem to have had one or another similar sort of experience like this over the course of time.
I think the bigger shocker isn't so much the experience, but with whom it transpired. Typically, she is very well reviewed.
I remember once, I was getting a dance from a girl and she made some sexual comment to enhance the mood. Me, not knowing any better and being inexperienced, I joked it off. Well, the girl basically jumped up, called me an a**hole and then wrapped her hands around my neck and started joking me. She was insisting that she was all hot and turned on for me and that I rejected her and was being a prick.
I can laugh about it now, but who the hell knows what THAT was about??? People have off days, I guess.
Q.